Posted: Fri Feb 23, 2007 12:23 pm Post subject: Sick of been blamed.
Do you find when ever you have been bullied people seem to turn the blame on you? I have experienced this and it frustrates me so much. I don’t see how some body calling me names throwing things at me and putting off food in my bag is my fault. I try to be nice to everyone and do the right thing by everyone but it never seems to be returned. My fuse has got really short. I have put up with too much of this crap and I actually went off in a shout box at a forum I got banned from a while ago because of some people for no apparent reason didn’t like me. I went back there purely to let off some steam. I am not sure if I should of but I am sick of these people never getting stood up to and some guy had some nerve who supposedly was meant to be my friend said that I encouraged the bad things they said to me but they were saying offensive things about me before I even went off. And he made out that I am too sensitive and I need to get some thick skin, I may need to toughen up but just because I am not a jerk and put others down I get outcasted it feels like you’re either the one that puts people down or the one that is the target. I may care too much about what people think but that makes me a caring person I am glad I am not an insensitive bastard and make people feel like an idiot. They make you feel like your in the wrong because you are a good person it doesn’t pay to be nice.
i feel da same way dats da same situation im in ppl r always telling me shit and pickin on me, throwin me food after lunch cuz i would never stand up 4 myself like wut is da world coming 2 i really hate it but i guess dats life so ur not alone
Joined: Jul 14, 2006 Posts: 591 Location: Australia
Posted: Sat Mar 24, 2007 7:06 am Post subject:
bullies always get away with everything, they can dish out crap to people, but when it happens to them they act like babies because they can't handle it, they're cowards.
This girl bullied me constantly for weeks all day everyday, so I finally snapped and beat her ass down, even though I don't like hitting people, but she carried on like she was being murdered, and screamed and cried and begged me to let her go, and I ended up in detention, locked up in a classroom so I couldn't get out, how is that fair? She got away with it, and I got punished for defending myself
What other people feel or say is not the most important thing (or problem). What do YOU feel? Whom do YOU blame? Whatever whoever says can hurt, but you simply cannot do anything about it. When you are being bullied, the most, most important thing is not to blame YOURSELF. Whatever happens, you are still a good person, Neverending. Remember that.
Joined: Dec 22, 2007 Posts: 22 Location: West Sussex
Posted: Sat Dec 22, 2007 4:23 am Post subject: Mm
It's so true! Bullies have clever ways of manipulating situations to make the victim look like the bully. It happened to me at my junior and senior school. And in the end, the bullies made me feel like I was actually a bad person. But I wasn't. The school never did anything about it. I got the blame, and called in to see the Headmistress, and accused of "cyber-bullying."
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