Do You Talk to Yourself ??

COALPORTER · Newbie User Joined: Nov 27, 2006 Posts: 47

DO YOU

I do.
I've read that this common for very shy people.
I talk out loud to myself (when I'm alone and shure no one else can hear.)
Make believe converstions, like I'm talking to a friend.
I'm trying to stop this bad habit.
I think its damaging behavior in the long run.
Then when I'm around people, I say almost nothing.
Thats because I'm too tense? sa kicks in
I'm woundering how I can turn this around?
If I can make up a converstion by myself, then I should be able to make up a nice converstion with other people.

MARK TWAIN once said, " There are no dialogues, only intersecting monologues."
So maybe a converstion is just two (or more) people really talking to thierselfs ?? lol
hopefully i can rememer this.

themousethatroared · Posted: Mon Dec 04, 2006 3:39 am Post subject:

I tend to talk to myself if I am not around people for an extended period of time. I carry on conversations with people in my head as almost a warmup when I get the chance to speak to someone. I do not think of it as harmful. It would be difficult for me to keep my mind quiet. The only way that seems to cut out some of the inner dialogue and talking to myself is when I talk to people more often.

Pinker · Posted: Mon Dec 04, 2006 11:09 am Post subject:

I tend to talk to myself quite a bit, just random thoughts but not a full blown conversation lol.

It's embarassing when someone hears you though Embarassed

That's happened a few times.

xkiss_me_nowx · Posted: Mon Dec 04, 2006 11:52 pm Post subject:

i dont really.. well

if im mad at my dad or something i'll say out allowed "fucking twat" and shit like that haha.
orrr sometimes when im at the Pc.. and someone like sends me a grose picture or something lol id be like eurghhh mingin. haha.

other than that normal stuff though.. no i dont?? Question

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moodygoo · Newbie User Joined: Sep 03, 2006 Posts: 57

Some_guy · Intermediate User Joined: Oct 22, 2006 Posts: 113

Nothing wrong with it, everyone does it. It's a way of practicing our social skills. Smile

nerdgirl178 · Posted: Tue Dec 05, 2006 3:17 am Post subject:

Yeah me too...but my dad thinks I am a crazy Laughing

DYiNG-iNSiDE · Posted: Tue Dec 05, 2006 5:30 am Post subject:

i dont too much ill mumble something to myself or when im in a good mood i will but lately i ve actually been talkin 2 my dog like ill ask him 2 get the door or turn the tv volume up then i catch myself and remember hes a dog!! lmao

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red_reagel · Newbie User Joined: Nov 19, 2006 Posts: 81

YES!!! but.. I try to do it only to practice. I wouldn't wanna turn into a psycho, and then my mom walking in.. Shocked

lol my family already thinks I'm weird enough.

frustr4t3d · Newbie User Joined: Dec 07, 2006 Posts: 57