Noobie here

emerald · Posted: Sun Mar 13, 2005 9:23 am Post subject:

Yes, I can always find ways of avoiding the world. I have become quite adapt at it. I am at university doing a degree, and as the university day is so short it is easy to wander off after lectures and pretend to be busy studying instead of joining the chatty group in the canteen.

of course this means that I have only acquantancies and not friends, but I find it easy to chat to people on a superficial level for a few moments and then move on. It is only when that person wants to meet up again and the setting becomes more intimate. that is when I find I do not know what to do. I become nervous and phone or text to cancel and let people down.