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PostPosted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 1:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

SocialRetahd wrote:
I was good looking and than I got ugly. Even my grandma says it now. I use to get comments from everyone saying how great looking and girls would never look me in the eye. I lost all the baby fat in my face, and guess what?!?!?! I've never had a girlfriend either. So it'll just be that much harder, oh boy!!!

Sry for the trolling.


how can someone possibly "go ugly"? remember what I said, there's no ugly. beauty is a complicated thing (and still a very basic thing). however, if you want to be more attractive, you can. there are so many ways how to get to look and feel better.


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 2:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

People can easily become ugly. The transition phase from kid to adult. You shed the baby fat in your face. It's a shitty period. I feel like human trash.

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PostPosted: Tue May 01, 2007 12:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You are gorgeous! What has someone done to cause doubt? Way out of my league. Rolling Eyes


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PostPosted: Tue May 01, 2007 11:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Your not ugly and thats not really a big factor Most appeal comes down to three things in my opinion

Confidence , how you present youself and how your dressed.

i dont know why or how but if you think your sexy and confident you get like an aura that other people pick up on especially women trust me i know cause i suck at it. maybe im just crazy eh

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 07, 2007 11:20 pm    Post subject: imho Reply with quote

Hi, I think without a doubt that you look very ok. You are definitely not ugly, you hear me? You are tall, have a good proportioned face and body. The clothes and hair not so, because it makes you look like a thug, but not in a good way. I wouldn't call you handsome, but that's only because my standard of beauty is ridiculous. Only if someone is like Jude law, Wentworth Miller, Brad Pitt etc. I can see that person as handsome. It's absolutely retarded and I only torture myself with such standards.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 11:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You are definitely not unattractive. I'm no expert of course, but if you want to look more attractive, you can consider growing out your hair, have longer hair so you can style it. Not too long like shoulder length but just the short and neat type that you can style with gel. I think you would look great with longer hair Very Happy As for your built, you seem to be well built and tall, both good qualities Very Happy If your finance allows, you can try a makeover with clothes to built the image you like and want in your mind, although in my honest opinion, your dress sense isn't bad, Nike sweats and jeans seems pretty cool. If you want more of a fashionable look, you can pierce one of your ear and wear a small stud. My brother did that, its quite a cool look Wink

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 9:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

He seems to be balding so i don't know if growing his hair out is a good idea. Also, I heard that only skanky girls are into earrings.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 11:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hope you are not too hung up on what other people say as that is rubbish...having seen your photo friend,you are a good looker,you are not ugly...if i thought you were i would'nt have bothered replying...

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 05, 2007 5:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

People use to tell me i was good looking. but lately i think because of the stress and the worries i've become so ugly. I have these blak wringles in my eyes makes me luk like a zombie.

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 05, 2007 8:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Jegan wrote:
People use to tell me i was good looking. but lately i think because of the stress and the worries i've become so ugly. I have these blak wringles in my eyes makes me luk like a zombie.


Okay, let's say that you look stressed/worried rather than ugly. I general, people look good when they feel good. If you take a good look-around, you'll notice that NOONE is actually pretty. Or ugly. Everyone has one head, two eyes, two arms, one nose with a mouth underneath and an ear on either side of head. (Of course, there are also deformations. But you know that deformed (different, that's a better word) doesn't mean ugly.) So, objectively, you look normal. (Everyone does.) Now, you can look more or less attractive (attractive is not the right word for what I mean.. can't find any proper one right now). You can look sick or healthy, stressed or relaxed, fresh or neglected, happy or depressed, confident or self-conscious. That's it. Don't worry about your looks - worry rather about how you feel.


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