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veryshy
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 Posted: Mon May 28, 2007 6:31 pm Post subject: Welp another year has come and passed.. |
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and Im still single 
Im not a social phobe, maybe just a bit shy. I just dont know anyone, all the people I know are in a relationship, married or whatever and it seem slike NONE of them know ANY single girls, NONE AT ALL! Is there a drought of single girls out there or what? Seems like if you want somebody you have to try and steal them away from someone else and Im not all about that.
I cant even pick up girls in a bar, Ive tried.
WTF?!?! I know Im not ugly. But I am kinda short 5'8" and arms are really skinny. I dont think many girls like guys with skinny ams.
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anxiousmouse
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oh! oh! so, you are shy.
you are a man after all this does not suit you.
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SocialRetahd
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| Posted: Tue May 29, 2007 8:40 am Post subject: Re: Welp another year has come and passed.. |
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I cant even pick up girls in a bar, Ive tried.
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How do they respond???
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veryshy
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| Posted: Wed May 30, 2007 9:23 pm Post subject: |
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I pick out the nice ones and approach them. They are usually nice and talk to me but then they leave. Ive had one say I was nice but she liked her guys with "more meat on the bone". My arms are really small, lots of girls have bigger wrists than I do.
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Kinetik
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Don't pick up girls at the bar. Not only is it difficult and stressful, but it makes you look like a skeeze even if you're genuinely a good guy. Why not try a dating site? I've had relationships form in real life and a couple that started out online too. Both ways worked out okay. So I reckon it's worth a shot. Definitely the easiest way to meet some singles in your area without that horrible face-to-face situation.
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SocialRetahd
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| Posted: Sat Jun 02, 2007 3:03 am Post subject: |
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| veryshy wrote: | | I pick out the nice ones and approach them. They are usually nice and talk to me but then they leave. Ive had one say I was nice but she liked her guys with "more meat on the bone". My arms are really small, lots of girls have bigger wrists than I do. |
superficial bitches.
edit: Thats exactly your problem, you are being too nice. Nice is boring. You probably need to say exactly whats on your mind and be willing to accept the consequences. But thats the problem. We are way too shy to be like other guys, and so we fail.
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veryshy
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| Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 3:04 am Post subject: |
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| Kinetik wrote: | | Don't pick up girls at the bar. Not only is it difficult and stressful, but it makes you look like a skeeze even if you're genuinely a good guy. Why not try a dating site? I've had relationships form in real life and a couple that started out online too. Both ways worked out okay. So I reckon it's worth a shot. Definitely the easiest way to meet some singles in your area without that horrible face-to-face situation. |
I have/am trying the dating sites. Ive managed to get one girl to meet me face to face, she nicely put it that she wasnt into me after we met. Which was okay because she was kinda a snob.
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SocialRetahd
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I have/am trying the dating sites. Ive managed to get one girl to meet me face to face, she nicely put it that she wasnt into me after we met. Which was okay because she was kinda a snob. |
How long did it take her to come to this conclusion?
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veryshy
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I dont know if it was at first sight or what but we met and talked for about 30 mins. Then she said something about how I wasnt the kinda guy for her. But I was okay with it cause I didnt really like her either.
Face to face situations is not what Im scared of. Im not a social phobe, only a little shy at first. i guess Im kind of a bore too.
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SocialRetahd
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you sound depressed.
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