Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2007 10:35 pm Post subject: What would you do to your bully if you could?
Give yourself a good time and get to know yourself better: what would you do to your bully if you had all power over him? Would you take revenge, forgive, ask for an apology? Here is personally what I would do, if I could, to a guy who bullied me in secondary school and has now, as far as I know, become a lawyer (presumably defending young and adult bullies...):
(Warning: what follows contains violent material which may be shocking to some people.)
Since he mocked me because of my big ears, I guess I would grab him by the hair (under the threat of a pistol) and stick each side of his head, ear included, against a hotplate (burning hot, of course). After having listened to his screams for 30 secs or so, I would throw him to the floor, take a baseball bat, and batter his skull repeatedly until I have achieved a significant modification of its shape and colour. Finally, in case there was still some life left in him, I would empty the gun in his face, kick it, spit and urinate on it, before dragging his body to the closest refuse chute, where I would dispose of it as it deserves. Then I would probably have a coffee.
And you, what would you do to your bully (-ies)? Do let us know, and don't be afraid to go into details...
First I would see if he has changed or not. If he had changed, I would walk away and not say anything. If he didn't show remorse, if he still acted that way...I would probably break his arms and legs. Maybe I should see Hostel to get some good ideas.
Stupid thread. You're making SA sufferers out to be evil revenge seekers. Not cool.
If you ever see a person who bullied you or who still bullies you, just don't give them the satisfaction of getting on your nerves. All they're looking for is a reaction, and if you don't give them one they will give up. However, if the bullying persists, you should definitely work on a good dominate hook that will drop the bully to their knees .
Your piece of advice should be under the rubric "How you should behave towards a person who bullies (or has bullied) you". This thread does not deal with this, but with what one would do to a bully in an imaginary situation of complete power, and it is primarily addressed to people who have already been oppressed and were unable to defend themselves. You've misunderstood the initial post.
To the person who started this bulliten. you are one sick puppy! jesus christ! ya know...do you think your bully is sitting there thinking about what he would do to you (presuming hes still a jerk) hell no! he probs is a lawyer because he worked damm hard at it! what have you done matey?
its horrible he used to bully you...but my god! why dont you be the better person and ya kno, go council lil kids who are currently being bullied? volenteer if u feel that strongly about it! ....jesus christ!
ahh...it's an okay thread. You can go and do good to other people but...you'll feel angry about the whole bullying thing for the rest of your life..so I'd say you'd only get satisfaction if you got them back somehow. I know it can be all negative and stuff..but..what comes around goes around.
theres a big difference between bein bullied at school when ur like 16? to then gettin your own back at 25? mentality is different, im sure your bully even might be ashmed of how they behaved ya kno. ....move on...
theres a big difference between bein bullied at school when ur like 16? to then gettin your own back at 25? mentality is different, im sure your bully even might be ashmed of how they behaved ya kno. ....move on...
i agree with you..that moving on is exactly the right thing to do..and yet i guess i feel that it's easier said than done..obviously. But i think for myself, and perhaps many others who were (are) bullied..the problem is, when being bullied is accompanied by being extremely withdrawn, socially phobic, whatever..the feelings of resentment, frustration, depression and loneliness..have nowhere to go..and just fester. For myself, I think the bullying that happened at the hands of my mother, and a guy on my school bus, many years ago..(i'm in my thirties)..affected me deeply. It's a long, on-going process..to 'move on' from. I'm no psychologist, but my feeling is, those feelings i kept bottled up for many years are coming back to haunt me in the form of anxiety. So, back to the original post..if I had the chance to talk to "Dale", the insensive jerk who taunted me constantly on the bus..sat in the back seat..i guess cause he was "cool"??? me, sitting in the front seat (for protection.. ) Well, he had some kind of problem with my being Italian..and pelted apples, oranges, whatever shit he had in his lunch or could find on the floor at my head, yelled every name in the book at me..ripped my sweaters, or whatever he could get his hands on..Then, believe it or not, a few years later..when I looked to his liking i guess..he asked me out!! What an asshole fuck, it still makes me mad. Anyway, I would let him know the effect he had on me and likely other people..and how hard it's been for me to crawl out and make a life for myself..hmm, sorry long post, but it felt good? nah, good is totally not the right word..therapeutic..to type it out.
yeh i do completety empasise with what your sayin, couple of my lil memories from the past haunt me, i remember when i got propa verbally atacked by some girls i was mates with, that feeling and the atmosphere haunts me to this day. now and then i sorta zone out into a really quite mood and go propa paranoid, so i take what everyione is sayin as a attack, but i have to snap myself out of it, i dont this recently by thinking fuck it, why should i be quite? spoke up, and all was good. but yeh still happens and im still working on it, maybe it will always happen who knows.
ps by the sounds of it that bloke from the bus fancied u the hole time, lol, bois at that age have no game
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) Well, he had some kind of problem with my being Italian..and pelted apples, oranges, whatever shit he had in his lunch or could find on the floor at my head, yelled every name in the book at me..ripped my sweaters, or whatever he could get his hands on..Then, believe it or not, a few years later..when I looked to his liking i guess..he asked me out!! What an asshole 
fuck, it still makes me mad. Anyway, I would let him know the effect he had on me and likely other people..and how hard it's been for me to crawl out and make a life for myself..hmm, sorry long post, but it felt good? nah, good is totally not the right word..therapeutic..to type it out.