Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 3:14 am Post subject: Babies
When you're feeling especially lonely from SAD, do you ever wish that you could have a baby? I find that the lonelier I get, the more I want one. They love without judging. They won't care if you can't hold a conversation, neither can they. They won't leave you. You can love them back because of that. Anyone else have thoughts similar before?
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 11:41 am Post subject:
Generally I hate babies....they annoy the hell out of me.....and I hate it how people who don't deserve to have kids just pop them out.....having said that though, I would probably feel differently about my own....so I guess sometimes I think that, although who the hell would sleep with me....and I have the distinct feeling I'm probably barren...oh well
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babies are great..but not all people think that. babies arent something you can just wish for one minute then regret it the next. maybe its a good idea what starry said..how about getting a cat or a dog or something? they never judge or answer back and they're ALOT easier to look after than kids
I think that having a baby is a wonderful idea to someone wih SA, to move ones focus outwards. However, this world is overcrowded and this might be considered as another worry , as far the planet is going in the direction which i spotted a long ago(Unlike other men i wished about having my inheritor when i was 14...recently i have changed my mind, and there is no a proper women -also i m not good enough) . Babies are cute , even if the people who are getting them are disgusiting
You have to remember, though, that babies grow older and become children, and then you have to deal with kindergarten, school, teachers, the child's friends and their parents. The happiest time in my life was when my son was small, up until he started school. It was wonderful to have this person in my life who belonged just to me (well, and to my husband, I guess), someone for whom I was the center of the world, someone who loved me and thought I was wonderful. But then he started school, and started wanting friends to come over, or be taken to other friends. Having to deal with the other kids parents is so hard for me. Like, when they bring their kid to our house, they expect to be invited in for coffee and a chat. An absolute nightmare for me . Now he is getting to the age (he's almost 11) where he is becoming more independent every day, and I can already see the yawning emptiness which will come over my life when he doesn't need me anymore. Then my existence will be absolutely pointless.
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Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2007 6:01 am Post subject:
I think more people should adopt kids or be good foster parents before having a bunch of their own kids. Personally I feel I need to win the lottery before I could afford to have kids.
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. Now he is getting to the age (he's almost 11) where he is becoming more independent every day, and I can already see the yawning emptiness which will come over my life when he doesn't need me anymore. Then my existence will be absolutely pointless.
