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bulliedgurl
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 3:09 pm    Post subject: will a guy ever like me Reply with quote

will a guy ever like me for who i am and not for what i look like on the outside

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 3:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Probably. Will you ever believe that a guy likes you for who you are on the inside, and not just for who you are on the outside? (that's a key component) :p

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 3:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Accept and love yourself, then when you do that you'll become more attractive to everyone around you. Looking for acceptance through others will not make you happy.

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 3:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I can't imagine it's possible to feel attraction from anything else than the outside.


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 7:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kien wrote:
I can't imagine it's possible to feel attraction from anything else than the outside.

I feel much more attracted to a kind and caring girl than a beautiful or "sexy" one who lacks these traits.

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 7:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Argamemnon wrote:
Kien wrote:
I can't imagine it's possible to feel attraction from anything else than the outside.

I feel much more attracted to a kind and caring girl than a beautiful or "sexy" one who lacks these traits.


i feel the same way.

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 2:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Argamemnon wrote:
Kien wrote:
I can't imagine it's possible to feel attraction from anything else than the outside.

I feel much more attracted to a kind and caring girl than a beautiful or "sexy" one who lacks these traits.

Last summer I went all nutty over a girl at work and I didn't even like her personality.


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 5:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kien wrote:
Argamemnon wrote:
Kien wrote:
I can't imagine it's possible to feel attraction from anything else than the outside.

I feel much more attracted to a kind and caring girl than a beautiful or "sexy" one who lacks these traits.

Last summer I went all nutty over a girl at work and I didn't even like her personality.


Well, there you have it! Most guys are pretty superficial and are influenced too much by appearances. What good does it to go out with a gorgeous woman if she is really stupid, or a complete bitch? Women, on the other hand, at least women with at least half a brain, don't let themselves be mislead so much by a handsome face. For me, at least, looks are secondary. A guy has to be smart and have a sense of humor.

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 6:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sure but I don't want any girl. Of coures mind is what matters in a relationship. But I don't fall in love becouse I want some relationship. It happens becouse my brain makes me too, not becouse I want to. But anyway I don't think I could stand having someone who doesn't look good enough.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2008 10:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Looks don't matter to me, everyone gets old saggy and gross eventually...those supposedly "good looking people" will be wrinkled and saggy eventually..besides what if you married someone for looks and they got their face torn off by wild dogs, would you go and find a replacement?? Razz


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