Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 3:54 am Post subject: loneliness and other bullshit
Right now i am just so pissed ff with life. its so frustratisng that i am theonly guy out of all the people i know that is single, has no interests, does not want to go out, and have women reject him all the time
people tell me i should get out and try and meet new people. Well i am not exaggerating when i tell you that every attempt in me doing this has been a clusterfuck, and has turned out to be a very bad experience. I have not had one experience when i have gone to meet new people that has turned out to be positive. So i have no reason to go out again, little lone want to get into that situation again.
You may think, well.. its hopeless then. I totally agree. I am tired of seeing all my friends happy, married, or in a relationship. ven they have a life. I know people half my age that are more successful than i am. My brother and sister have a way better life than i do, and i am the older one of them.
to sum it up, give up on getting a women, because it is so very hopeless for me to even dream about getting a women. I was confident and sure of myself once, however it did not make a difference if i was confident or not, Girls hated me, they thought i was a nerd or a geek, i was different, always got made fun of, and people expect me to actually leave all that in the past and continue on with your life. Well if you have had nothing but bad experiences in your life, it is impossible to think that your life is going to change for the better.
oh btw, there is this person who i like, however every women that i like is not single and won't give me the time of day. well fuck it, life suxs and apparently so do i
Joined: Mar 09, 2008 Posts: 122 Location: Ottawa, Canada
Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 4:19 am Post subject:
I know how you feel, all my friends and almost everyone in my family (brother, sister, and cousins) are in relationships while I have yet to experience anything close to what they experience with the people they love. My parents and grandparents are always saying oh well go get a job and you'll come out of your shell, you'll meet new people. Well I've tried to and I can't. Frankly I don't want to when I feel like crap all the time. I want to meet new people so bad but I just can't get out there. I know how you feel buddy.
A good thing is that you don't fall for the "there's someone for everyone". You see the truth and doesn't give yourself false hope. I see it as natural that I wont have any woman. Some people can not attract the opposit gender. But a lot of people are stupid and doesn't understand this.
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Compulsory sterilization is good.
More security. Less freedom.
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and y not? why should i not stress over it. I am nearly 30 years old and never have kissed a girl, little lone had a relationship with one. Which is sad isn't it
and y not? why should i not stress over it. I am nearly 30 years old and never have kissed a girl, little lone had a relationship with one. Which is sad isn't it
Its not sad. You have all the experiences in front of you but you have to make sure you do something to make them happen. Everything is in front of you!!
and y not? why should i not stress over it. I am nearly 30 years old and never have kissed a girl, little lone had a relationship with one. Which is sad isn't it
Its not sad. You have all the experiences in front of you but you have to make sure you do something to make them happen. Everything is in front of you!!
Inexperience is not a good quality.
I am upset that I was even born into this superficial world that makes you feel like shit for things you have no control over.
and y not? why should i not stress over it. I am nearly 30 years old and never have kissed a girl, little lone had a relationship with one. Which is sad isn't it
Its not sad. You have all the experiences in front of you but you have to make sure you do something to make them happen. Everything is in front of you!!
Inexperience is not a good quality.
I am upset that I was even born into this superficial world that makes you feel like shit for things you have no control over.
Feeling sorry for yourself isn't going to get you any experience though. You have to save up all that sadness and use it productively so you can start living.
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