I feel I have nothing to offer women

sickofbeinglonely · Newbie User Joined: Oct 31, 2005 Posts: 71

I feel like this most of the time. But I also know that I'm kind and caring and that I'm a decent person, whether women would find me interesting or not. Which is one reason why it upsets me when I hear about women getting involved with men who are agressive and devious and treat them like shit. I know there's absolutely no way I could ever treat women like that.

But I don't have much going for me. I still live at home with my parents, I suffer OCD and depression as well as SA and there's quite a few things I'm not too good at, practical stuff mostly. I always think I'm eventually going to meet someone and then I'll work harder to better myself. I don't have the motivation a lot of the time to try harder. I feel caught between having a bit of optimism and hope and being completely pessimistic and giving up.