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PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 4:59 am    Post subject: So I told this girl I liked her Reply with quote

And she said "I gtg bye"




Good or bad sign?

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 5:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Could be either, hopefully good. Depends on the way she acted though, it also might mean something very bad. Just wait to se what happens next, and if she tries to talk to you again.



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PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 5:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

she said she doesnt believe me because i didnt talk to her when i met her and that i only met her once.



Anxiety is fucking everything up, I knew i should hide things like that from people but im so open i never keep secrets like that(unless they are super important)


EDIT:

Actually i shouldnt really care, she is WAY out of my league anyways. I shouldn't even bother with girls as good as her

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 5:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I did the same thing.I did it in the form of a 17,000-word note that I stuffed into her locker a few months ago. I have yet to recieve a response, other than that she stared at me for a long time a couple days later...

Anyway, doesn't it just feel GREAT to say it and get it out there?


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 5:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm not really sure.


Every time I tell them they turn me down. So i don't know why I keep doing it.


Not only that, but even if she said yes I don't want to date her, once i get in a relationship i get really anxious and never go anywhere(kissing etc) and they will dump me.


Im just an idiot basically.

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 5:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

How did you tell her? That definately has an effect on why she wouldn't believe you.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 5:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I said

" I like you [insert name of her girl here]"



I'm not going to try harder to impress her, if she doesnt like someone because they dont pick thier words good enough thats just stupid

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 6:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The way you said it, I don't think too many people would take it seriously. To answer you're question of good sign or bad sign, I'd say it's neither. It probably won't affect your relationship any, but if it does, it's probably a change for the worse.

I mean... if you want to tell a girl you like her and get anywhere with it, you have to prepare and take some steps to not sound like a creep. The 17,000 words I used might be a tad on the exessive side, but it explained firstly, that I liked her, then went into the why, when, how, and all that noise. I'd suggest that you try to pretend like it never happened with that particular girl, then next time you feel the need to tell someone that stuff, try to plan it out so that it's taken seriously.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 6:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

yeah now shes using me as her guy-friend and asking me which picture she looks better in.

Now that shes knows I like her I guess she might aswell use it.


I always say im done with girls, I really wish it actually happened some times. I never want to think of them again, but I always do.

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 6:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Regardless if she likes you or not you were still brave enough to say something to her. Good for you! Thats pretty brave.


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