I am also looking for radical change, but I agree with you, it has to be so radical that I will leave my SA life behind. But I'm sure that will have its own problems too so I got to think beyond SA.
Posted: Wed Apr 27, 2005 10:33 am Post subject: Re: a possible solution..
elparanoic wrote:
I have been thinking that a possible solution would be make a radical change in our lives .The change would be going to an other city,make new friends,a new job and begin a new life.Do you thing that this change would the solution or always the illness follow with us?
It may work, and it may not. When I started my military service I felt I had changed my life finally, but two months later everyone knew me and things started to be the same as in my city.
If you move to another place, it's possible that the situations that cause your phobia do not occur, but there's no guarantee unless you go to the jungle, or a place so different (another culture) where people were like you. Your personality will always be with you, and it is a very big problem for you to consider your personality as an illness (disease). You will never get rid of who you are, here, in London, or in Moscow.
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