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Scottish_Player Expert User


Joined: Feb 02, 2005 Posts: 930 Location: United Kingdom
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Posted: Sun Sep 04, 2005 2:10 pm Post subject: "I LOVE YOU" |
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I was sitting last night (early morning) watching the tv and then somthing just came into my head for no reason at all, it just hit me that i have never said those three words out loud to any one in my entire life as far back as i can remember "I Love You" it made me sad a little that i have never had anyone in my life that i have felt that way about , so thats my mission in life now too find someone that i can say those little words too and mean it
I have said them over and over in my head a million times before but never out loud to anyone, so i said it out loud while sitting there myself just to see what it sounded like and i kinda had to force it out it just didnt feel right for some reason, awe well its just a random thing i thought i would mention 
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redlady Elite User


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Posted: Sun Sep 04, 2005 2:38 pm Post subject: |
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Romantic wise you have never? - you have to your family though? - but that's even hard to do, it was easier when i was little. You're right about being hard to get out, three little words but with so much meaning - and they make you vunerable, which is hard to be. I hope you find that someone you can be your most vunerable with and utter those three little meaningful words to.
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Scottish_Player Expert User


Joined: Feb 02, 2005 Posts: 930 Location: United Kingdom
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Posted: Sun Sep 04, 2005 3:04 pm Post subject: |
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| redlady wrote: | | you have to your family though? |
I have never said it too my family either, as much as i would love to say it as it do feel it, i would find it hard to say and would probably get a strange look 
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sensitive Advanced User


Joined: Jul 07, 2005 Posts: 423 Location: Arabian Peninsula
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Posted: Sun Sep 04, 2005 3:18 pm Post subject: |
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i love you too 
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gSteve Newbie User


Joined: Aug 07, 2005 Posts: 9 Location: United Kingdom
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Posted: Sun Sep 04, 2005 3:20 pm Post subject: |
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I don't think i've ever said it not even to my family, i'd probably get a strange look as well if I said it to my family
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nerdgirl178 Intermediate User


Joined: Nov 26, 2004 Posts: 164 Location: United States of America
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Posted: Sun Sep 04, 2005 4:56 pm Post subject: |
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| gSteve wrote: | | I don't think i've ever said it not even to my family, i'd probably get a strange look as well if I said it to my family |
That's funny. I always tell my mom I love her, I tell my dog I love her, I tell Jesus I love him But I know what you mean I never told a guy I love him. I can't wait to tell a guy I love him even if he looks at me like I am wierd...I own that feeling and its great.
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redlady Elite User


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Taws that actually sounds like a lot of fun. When i finally get drunk again and have a liquored up sense of confidence i might give it a go.
And Scottish_Player, Really, not even when you were little and it was 'safe' to say it. Well in that case i hope you find that person to say it to sooner rather than later. 
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ColdFury Intermediate User


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Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2005 3:57 am Post subject: |
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Never heard it from anyone. Its all foreign to me.
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blubs Advanced User


Joined: Jun 09, 2005 Posts: 334 Location: United Kingdom
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Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2005 10:55 am Post subject: |
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| Scottish_Player wrote: | | redlady wrote: | | you have to your family though? |
I have never said it too my family either, as much as i would love to say it as it do feel it, i would find it hard to say and would probably get a strange look  |
I think the whole dynamics of my family would disintegrate if anyone said 'I love you'
theres a bond between us all, but its based mainly on arguing yelling and piss taking
It is good being able to say it out loud to someone
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redlady Elite User


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Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2005 11:25 am Post subject: |
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My mum and dad are pretty free with it - but i find it difficult to say - why? Don't know - even when i know there is no possible chance of rejection because they have just said it to me. I find that i can say it more easily over the phone though. How does it feel? - Weird and nice at the same time - even if the words aren't spoken you know that your family loves you sure - but it's nice to hear it sometimes - in a way it is reassuring - i should keep that in mind when they say it to me, they may need that reassurance as well.
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