| How do handle your shyness? |
| keep it hide inside you |
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31% |
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| Cover it with a impersonal mask |
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36% |
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| Show it with all symptoms |
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27% |
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| Ignore it |
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4% |
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shyandnumb Intermediate User


Joined: Sep 06, 2005 Posts: 132 Location: USA
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Posted: Mon Sep 12, 2005 9:51 pm Post subject: The better artist: the shy ones or the not shy ones |
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I believe shyness can make you a better artist by making you more sensitive to your surroundings. My reasons for this belief:
1.) You can feel your emotions more clearly especially the painful ones.
2.) You have more of need to express moods and emotions through creative outlets than releasing them verbal.
3.) Being so quiet gives more time to observe and absorb the details of your surrounding environment.
4.) Lastly, you have the time develop your art form to its truest form.
Some negatives:
1.) You can be doubtful or ashame of your art to display for others to see.
2.)You are your own worst critic.
3.) You might become a perfectionist like me, which can do bad things to your blood pressure.
4.)Finally, You will get lost in the details and forget the reason you created it.
There folks, these are the 4 positive and the 4 negative reasons why the shy can be better artist than non-shy ones. Don't get me wrong, I think non-shys can be good artist too. However, the shy ones have certain traits that help improve their artistic abilities like better observation skills, better listening skills, and better understanding of their subjects. Please tell me what of my agreement and give me a honest answer. No uneccessary flattery,please! 
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redlady Elite User


Joined: Jul 08, 2005 Posts: 1958
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Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 1:46 am Post subject: |
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You make sense - i unfortunately fall into the negative aspects there.
Do you know of any specific shy artists - don't know shy, but a bit mentally awry - Van Gogh, Munch, Warhol - nah he was just eccentric - love it.
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redlady Elite User


Joined: Jul 08, 2005 Posts: 1958
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Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 7:48 am Post subject: |
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This sounds promising taws. Despite this rather biting and sarcastic hilarious veneer, it seems that you have the heart of a poet and that you have it within you to see inner beauty and take great pleasure in it.
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blubs Advanced User


Joined: Jun 09, 2005 Posts: 334 Location: United Kingdom
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Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 9:30 am Post subject: |
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I think being introverted helps you to notice your environment more..which helps
but in terms of being a successful artist...you need loads of self belief.
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Falling Newbie User


Joined: Jul 24, 2005 Posts: 92
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Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 8:47 pm Post subject: |
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i consider myself as a good artist for the future... sometimes i try to write lyrics...have been writing since i was 11. and i agree with that point that i am shy to make them public..
but i'm not my worst critical.. actually if i show my lyrics to 10 people and all of them will tell me that my lyrics sucks.. i won't care cuz i know that are good.
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Falling Newbie User


Joined: Jul 24, 2005 Posts: 92
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Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 11:04 pm Post subject: |
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| taws wrote: | | but how will you know they are good if everyone you show them to agrees they suck? but then again, what is truth? |
the truth is that they dont understand that much.
tehy think that my lyrics are bad just because are written by me. i basicly show them to my family & friends, and my friends really like my lyrics most of the time.
and before showing my lyrics to someone.. i test them. i show them lyrics of another song that isnt famous and if they tell me that they suck... well i dont ahve to show them my lyrics cuz whatever i will wrote they will criticise me.... but i'm always sooo much posistive on my lyrics & no one can hold me down by his words 
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Falling Newbie User


Joined: Jul 24, 2005 Posts: 92
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Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 11:16 pm Post subject: |
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you dislike compliments?
i used to dislike them but because i was very shy... nowadays if i dont hear compliments about my work i always finish fishing for compliments lol. and day by day i'm enjoying the centre of attantion.
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Falling Newbie User


Joined: Jul 24, 2005 Posts: 92
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Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 11:24 pm Post subject: |
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mmm maybe low self esteem?
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redlady Elite User


Joined: Jul 08, 2005 Posts: 1958
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Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2005 6:56 am Post subject: |
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_________________ "As we are human, we can't do what we can't do; as we are neurotic, we can't do what we can."
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Falling Newbie User


Joined: Jul 24, 2005 Posts: 92
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Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2005 10:30 am Post subject: |
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| McShy wrote: |
You may take another guess! |
lol that was funny
sry for asking that much! but yes i guess i know what are you trying to say... you're a modest guy.
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