Your view that homosexuality is indecent is what is indecent. So what if that particular incident has nothing to do with sp - he suffers from sp. A lot of people here post things that have nothing to do specifically with sp. He is reaching out and wants some support because if it escaped your attention he has noone else to talk to. He doesn't need the added judgement from the likes of you.
Well lets agree to disagree! Sweetheart! Nothing in this forum has escaped my attention because it’s so wide of the mark! All im stating is that the position of that guys issues was offensive to me & I suspect to most of the website members e.g. his morals towards sexual intercourse. & as a victim of S.P. I felt this forum had nothing to do with S.P. and more to do with attention for his mistake!
You know, people are who they are and noone should be made to feel guilty or wrong because of who they are. How painful to be told that YOU are wrong - YOU are offensive.
Joined: Feb 10, 2005 Posts: 1831 Location: United States of America
Posted: Mon Nov 07, 2005 2:54 am Post subject:
if this had to be about SP it wouldn't be in the "Friendship, Love, & Sex" forum. people make mistakes, this forum is open to anyone having a hard time. If he wanted someone judging him on his sexuality or on his choices, he wouldn't have come for support.
just-jonny, i'm sorry to hear all this. firstly i'm glad you got your anti-biotics for the infection, it can complicate other things if left untreatd.
also, i'm sorry your family didn't take too kindly to everything. this will all pass, i know it's no consolation but at least you don't have this big secret to hide anymore, it's in the open and that's that. maybe it's better this way? at any rate, don't kick yourself too hard. things will get better for you in the future.... and just remember that it took two to create this situation, so the falling-out with your mom and him isn't all on you.
like i say, i konw its not a lot of consolation, but i'm just trying to offer some support...
What the... Saddo, what you said was very rude and insensitive. When someone is going through a rough time, do you think your comments will make that person feel better? Would you like it if it was done to you? *shakes head* If what just-jonny said bothered you, why did you post on his thread? just-jonny, hope you're ok?
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I’m not having a dig at you, but if you felt so strongly about what I had written you could have sent a me a private message instead of causing a scene. And as far as my sexuality goes your approval is not needed.
Who the hell are you to look down at me just-jonny! I came on SPW hoping to find advice with someone who has real S.P. and yet you seem to think it’s ok to place me as the bad bitch! Homosexual behaviour it’s against my belief’s and religion and it was up to me to stand up for gods wishes!
Joined: Aug 04, 2005 Posts: 104 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: Mon Nov 07, 2005 2:21 pm Post subject:
saddo wrote:
Who the hell are you to look down at me just-jonny! I came on SPW hoping to find advice with someone who has real S.P. and yet you seem to think it’s ok to place me as the bad bitch! Homosexual behaviour it’s against my belief’s and religion and it was up to me to stand up for gods wishes!
Hey Saddo,
Can I just ask what religion are you talking about??
Whats the fucking point! Im so mad right now with just-jonny plus your all taking the side of him! You all seem to be blind to the facts of what he did! thats all,
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Saddo, what you said was very rude and insensitive. When someone is going through a rough time, do you think your comments will make that person feel better? Would you like it if it was done to you? *shakes head* If what just-jonny said bothered you, why did you post on his thread? 
just-jonny, hope you're ok?
