My bully story

brightxstar · Newbie User Joined: Mar 23, 2006 Posts: 88 Location: U.S.

I was about in 2nd or 3rd grade and small. A mean fat girl would always bully me. I don't remember if she would hit me but she would bug me. We had a class trip to a beach and I collected some seashells. She had crushed my shells and I was really mad. I tried to get the teacher's attention by raising my hand but it seemed as if she always didn't see me. I think the day after, I told my teacher and she was like.. why didnt u tell me then? and i told her because u didnt see my hand. and i think she apologized. but then nothing really happened after that. the year after i grew taller..and kept getting taller until i was taller than her. thats when she stopped bullying me. i guess she was scared of me because i was taller than her. (even though i knew if shed hit me, id cry and humiliate myself).

Why do people bully others? Is it because of their looks? I was just small and she would bug me, but when I grew taller she stopped. Does height really have something to do with it?

Guest · Posted: Fri Apr 14, 2006 8:03 pm Post subject:

I guess having to look up to someone wouldn't make much of a bully.

jinxed · Intermediate User Joined: Mar 18, 2006 Posts: 298

Boundless · Expert User Joined: Aug 20, 2005 Posts: 615 Location: UK

People seem to bully others for many reasons,examples -

An older brother/sister bullies them,and they take it out on you because they cant take it out on the people who bully them so they do it to you to feel better.

To look tough in front of there friends,in hopes to gain some recognition.

Entertainment,simple entertainment for these people,boredom on there part can lead to them seeking out ways to amuse them selves at your espense,to them its fun - to you its bullying.

Just a few examples as to why they may bully you,i went through alot of bullying my self and i know its effects.

Wiedaar · Newbie User Joined: May 02, 2006 Posts: 5

Bullying is kinda weak you know!, There are people who Bully but don't know why (What an Intelligence). It is mostly done by people with a fear for someone else, that is why they Bully a third persoon. Because they are to weak to fight their own Bully. Mad

Weak.....

I myself have never been bullyed but i have friends who used to be bullyed!

jinxed · Intermediate User Joined: Mar 18, 2006 Posts: 298

Ppl can also bully others often coz they're judgmental and look down on others and can't tolerate or only like those they think are cool or look good superficially.

maggie · Posted: Wed May 03, 2006 1:47 am Post subject:

i think sometimes...people bully others to make themselves feel better....in some weird twisted way.....i was bullied a lot also...and i think...it probably contributed to the anxiety i am dealing with now

Guest · Posted: Wed May 03, 2006 6:48 pm Post subject:

jinxed · Intermediate User Joined: Mar 18, 2006 Posts: 298

Dannii · Guest

I'm 15 years old and i still get bullied by people saying i better not leave the house or i will get battered Sad

sometimes i just feel like dying and comitting suicide and even writting this im crying because ive had enough, ive been bullied for 5 bloody years and i think that i have nothing to live for if im going to be killed anyways.
I try to be friends with everyone and im a weak person when it comes to bullying i always humiliate myself and break down i feel shamed to even be in this world i get called ugly and fat and i make myself feel as though i have nothing to live for Crying or Very sad

Please help before i do something id regret Sad