I think my teacher and my vacational adviser bully me

Nina · Newbie User Joined: Oct 20, 2006 Posts: 9

I go to vocational school since this year and i'm out of school mandatory and able to learn some jobs after that (German school system...very complicated after Elementary School there are 3 different types of schooles etc. etc. etc). Since it's a vacational school their goal is to have us all go to school for 2 more years for Realschule or finding an apprenticeship for everyone. We have our vacational adviser Mrs W. for that.

Well, we just had 2 weeksof work expirence and the employer had to fill somehing out how we worked and so on. Mrs W. was coming into class to talk to us about it. When she asked me i told her that i was at a Daycare Center and loved it. Her first respons was "Well you can't be a daycare teacher. They only take the best and you got an D at Math". I told her that if they wouldn't take me i'd just become a Paramedic, i voulenteer at the Red Cross anyway and i love it. She laughed and said Paramedic wasn't a job and i was being to defiant and stubborn. And that maybe the reason i didn't get a job is that i'm not behaving myself and not the grades. (no, the reason was that i didn't even gratuate from school yet, what she should know!) And then wanted to go on not hearing a word from me again. She only does/did that with me, not with the others

For my teacher: I was sick last Tuesday and gave her a report because they wrote a Technology Test. She told me to take the test this Saturday at 2 pm. I politely asked her for another appointment because i voulenteer at a blood donation on Saturday at 2. She told me "Well, then you need to cancel that or i'll give you an F if you are not interested in taking the test". Excuse me? I do bother to take the test but not at the certain time she suggested. But what bothers me the most is that another girl got another appointment for a test (not this test though) because she had dance practise. So her weekly dance practise seems to be more important than my voluenteering?

I don't feel like i'm being outrageous to them or anything Confused

Thelema · Expert User Joined: Jul 22, 2006 Posts: 839 Location: USA

Maybe she was just joking with you when she said you couldn't take it another time and that she would give you an F? It sounds so weird it must be a joke right?

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Nina · Newbie User Joined: Oct 20, 2006 Posts: 9

The thing is that the appontments to take missed tests are ALWAYS at that time and you usually don't get exeptions...but the other girl did because of a dance class she takes every week anyway Confused

haze · Newbie User Joined: Sep 14, 2006 Posts: 82

whenver something like that happens to me i normally just sit and take it unless it actully effects me (like missing a appointment) but about the teacher saying how you will not make it in a job, ignore her the fact she says that just proves how worthless her opinion is. i take lots of namecalling in school because well its just words isnt it, but the second anything physcial happens i defend myself because unlike words a fist does hurt.