Am I only shy or more ?

COALPORTER · Newbie User Joined: Nov 27, 2006 Posts: 47

I would really like to find a nice woman to spend the rest of my life with.
But i'm soo quiet that it either scares them or they think im wierd,
(I know not to stare at woman in public and not say something...this gives them a total panic attack). Im afraid too really try, because my behavor will only scare them)
Evil or Very Mad

When I see an atractive woman and feel like going up to her and starting a conversation, all I can think of is "Hi" and "Nice Tits". Very Happy

( Actually, sometimes this almost works) Very Happy

but I feel so inadaquate and incapable and angree with my self because I really honestly can't think of anything else to say. My mind is a total blank. I'm this way around family too, so its not that im nervious around women .

I'm college enducated and have a good career etc, but I a total loner.

Any ideas on how I can expand (that is have some at all) my converstion skills?? Question

mikey725 · Newbie User Joined: Dec 13, 2006 Posts: 3

Talk to them like you talk to your guy friends.

don't say "nice tits" if you were serious about that, it just scares them

just get to know them

lacnail · Newbie User Joined: Dec 25, 2006 Posts: 8

It sounds a bit like SA. I mean if it were only shyness, you might be a bit nervous to approach or to start talking. But if you find it impossible to open up to a woman or let conversation flow, it might be something more..

www.howtobecooler.com might be a good site for you

prince1 · Intermediate User Joined: Feb 14, 2007 Posts: 177

Sounds alot like SA as the anxiety blocks your mind from thinking properly. Its like a invisible barrier in ur head Sad

Happens to me a hell of alot. The only things i can say to girls is 'Hey' or just laugh at everything they say.

rado31 · Expert User Joined: Sep 15, 2006 Posts: 693

haha , your post made me laugh Razz