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COALPORTER
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 16, 2006 1:34 pm    Post subject: Do you like to have your picture taken ? Reply with quote

I really hate having my photograph taken. It really freaks me out
knowing that others can see it. I'm so shy I don't like to see my photo.
I haven't allowed it in over 20 years. I'm so self concious.
I don't mind looking in the mirror though.

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Starry
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 16, 2006 2:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I absolutely HATE having my photograph taken! I can take pictures of myself, but I really dislike other people seeing them. I can only look at them if I'm in a particularly good/positive mood. The rest of the time I can't look. (My stomach knots up and I start feeling sick) I hate looking in the mirror too. I won't look into one if anyone else is around to see me looking into it... I can't help thinking that people would wonder why I'd want to look into a mirror, that I'm too ugly, or even that I'm vain. Shocked


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 7:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I like taking my own pictures but I dont really like it when other people do, because they never seem to turn out well when other people take my picture. I guess because I feel more comfortable with myself when I'm by myself, I dont know...but I feel using the self-timer & taking my own pictures works best for me.

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 11:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I agree with LittleMissScareAll. I perfer taking my own pic because iam picky about the scenery in the background. I'ts a good thing they invented self timers.

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 18, 2006 1:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

LittleMissScareAll wrote:
I like taking my own pictures but I dont really like it when other people do, because they never seem to turn out well when other people take my picture.


...yeah same here.

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 25, 2006 12:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I let anyone who wanted to take my picture do it at the Dinner Party I went to. Maybe I'm starting to get over certain aspects of shyness;p

A lot of people are too critical of their photographs and see only the flaws and not the big picture. A good tip off of this is if a friend thinks it looks good or fine and you think it's the horrific.

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 12:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Starry wrote:
I absolutely HATE having my photograph taken! I can take pictures of myself, but I really dislike other people seeing them. I can only look at them if I'm in a particularly good/positive mood. The rest of the time I can't look. (My stomach knots up and I start feeling sick) I hate looking in the mirror too. I won't look into one if anyone else is around to see me looking into it... I can't help thinking that people would wonder why I'd want to look into a mirror, that I'm too ugly, or even that I'm vain. Shocked
I do this too. in these new music rooms at college, we all walked in to have a look, and there was a huge wall length mirror, and I just glanced at it, and turned around. Everyone in my class was really pretty, and I am not, so I felt as though they would be like, ugh why is she looking in the mirror, does she think she is pretty? Crying or Very sad
Never have liked having my picture taken. In groups shots I always feel as though i am the ugly one.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 8:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I really despise having my picture taken. The worst is when people sneak and take pictures of you. I find that an extreme invasion of my personal space. My husband has an uncle who likes to do that kind of crap at family gatherings (which I hate anyway). Usually I am a person who never speaks up on my own behalf, but I really made it clear after the last time that I DON'T allow myself to be photographed. Period. No exceptions. I didn't used to be so adamant about it, and when my son was small I even voluntarily posed for pictures with him. But now, it really embarrasses me to see pictures of myself. I think "Oh God, is that how people see me? I look terrible!" It's not that I'm incredibly ugly or obese or whatever. I just don't like the idea anymore of people having that power over me, to be able to look at pictures of me, and possibly make derogatory comments about me. I guess that's weird and paranoid.

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 10:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't like having my photo taken lol. For every good picture there's 10 bad ones where i'm like mid-pose..

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 07, 2007 2:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

dont like it....can remember even from young age not liking it
my parents could never find pics of me from old holidays cause i would always avoid em lol
never mind

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