Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 2:45 am Post subject: there aren't that MANY single folks out there
You know, its funny, because people say that there are a lot of single individuals, however, where are these people? quite literally everyone that i am around, is either married, in a relationship, or dating.. WTF?? how do these people meet? seriously, i can't seem to meet or find anyone who would give me the time of day.
Well i guess it doesn't matter, women don't seem to want to be around me, attitude or not.
Joined: Nov 05, 2004 Posts: 112 Location: New Zealand
Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 5:15 am Post subject:
It's also often dependant on age, I know being in my teen years there are alot of single girls around. Then again dating doesnt seem to be an issue at all for most of them, it seems like a different person each week for some.
But if I was mid 30's or whatever I'd probably find that a substantial amount of people I knew would be in some kind of relationship.
But there are always other single people out there, probably in the same situation as you right now thinking that there is nobody out there for them and its all BS.
Like has been said 100's of times before, clubs and things - hobbies etc are often good ways of finding people. Singles events could be an option maybe if thats your cup of tea. SA/SP does make all of that kind of thing that much harder though huh, still its a more or less sure way to find someone eventually.
Joined: Apr 02, 2004 Posts: 16 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 10:01 am Post subject:
Well lifesnotfair, I think maybe you need to calm down abit and maybe think along more romantic lines, women are not objects they are people too, try making freinds with women and having women as freinds it may give you abit more insight into what makes them tick, you may like what you find.
With the attitude you have now you really are not going to get anywhere.
Be warm be freindly, dont expect marraige just because a girl smiles at you, as the song goes 'love was not an easy game to play', it isnt for any of us, dont think its just you, you just have to change your tactics.
I'm not sure about the last posters thread and doing bodybuilding, I find that kind of thing unappealing and much prefer 'normal' build men. Though if you do it to help depression thats different.
Take care
Rosie
Last edited by Cutegal on Mon Nov 22, 2004 11:28 am; edited 1 time in total
i don't think that you guys are getting it..people are saying that there are lots of single people out there, however, everywhere i go, i see people together, even at work, they are all married or in relationships, what i am saying is that there isn't that MANY single people...
Joined: Oct 04, 2004 Posts: 581 Location: New Zealand
Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2004 4:05 pm Post subject:
I know what you mean lifeisnotfair. I used to be actively involved in the church and there it was even worse, most people were in either a serious relationship or married by age 23 and some I knew married as young as 17! Its weird to think that so many people out there my age (22) are married already and Im yet to go on a date
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