i still remember and still goes on

shyguynick155 · Newbie User Joined: Jun 19, 2006 Posts: 38

im always being picked on in school, like people push me and throw food on me during lunch time because i would never do nothing.girls never look at me and theres this one guy named Alex Averalo that is always telling me shit and hes build so if ill get in a fight with him i know ill loose so whats the point in it.even my friends tell me stuff and i cant do nothing about it because i think that are the only friends ill have and its hard finding new ones especially girls because they think im ugly so i hate my self...ima go die now bye

erics95se · Newbie User Joined: Nov 14, 2006 Posts: 10

A build doesn't mean jack shit in a fight. . if you're going down the violent road, it is more less vital you get more hits out in less time (speed is god in this situation) .. it's like a car.

sure you can have a big motor but will it go fast? think modded eclipse vs. corvette.

one's big, brawny, and has status.. the other.. picked on, disliked by alot, but loved by few, and for good reason, because it's practical. not overdone.

who wins from a dig in the race (full stop?) if you know what you're doing, you can be the eclipse in this race.

Or, you just go to the principal/dean. Report what's happened. tell them you want it stopped, or you'll be showing the school a lawsuit and be also having the police involved as well as another civil suit for emotional pain and suffering towards this other douchebag.

paul77uk · Newbie User Joined: Jun 13, 2007 Posts: 5

I made mistakes when i was younger, i was bullied, and was a better person then, if i only i could have had some strength to stand up, not so much physically, but to be the person i wanted to be regardless of being bullied.

I did stand up physically, but mentally actually became weaker as a person, for i then got into the wrong crowd, i became a bit of a bully.
I got friends, a sort of respect and people feared me.
I got to a thing, where i became as others who bullied me, i got into trouble, i got into fights, all to gain their respect.

I submitted to the bullies more than if i let them beat me up.
For i let them change me into them.

You don't want to take any steps down that road, trust me i speak from experience.

Be a good person yourself, try to find some strength to live by good qualities as a person, and people will actually love you for it.
I mean it.

If you be a loving caring person, sure you may get mocked by people who are not, who lack in themselves.
But don't give into them and become anything like them.

You may not get a girlfriend now.
You may feel depressed, shy, worthless, it's probably not going to attract people.

It's being a caring loving person that will attract people, the right people.
For you could change to attract the wrong people, and then you will never be happy.
You will always live to please them and never be happy.

Be happy, be true, be a caring loving person.
And girls and all people will be attracted to you for the genuine person you are.
You may even have a good affect on these bullies and unpleasant people.

For the truth is, they need help.