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I find it hard to meet people as I'm too boring, comparing

 
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What do you feel?
I know I'm boring
26%
 26%  [ 7 ]
I envy others
3%
 3%  [ 1 ]
I have both the feelings above
65%
 65%  [ 17 ]
I have none of the feelings above
3%
 3%  [ 1 ]
Total Votes : 26

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Marvolo
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 13, 2007 7:54 pm    Post subject: I find it hard to meet people as I'm too boring, comparing Reply with quote

As in the topic subject. Do you have so as me?

I know that they have simply more interesting casual life, and I both envy somehow and know I'm really boring in comparison... Sad Evil or Very Mad

What to do with it? Question I can't work it out...

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 14, 2007 12:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

yeah, i'm very similar to you, i think. i immediately lose interest in getting to know people because they have so much more experience in life than i do. i can't help but compare myself to people everytime and i realize that i'm not worth their time. i don't do a lot of fun things or get out that much though i wish i could. i always envy people around me even if i try not to.
i guess we could just try getting as much as we can in life or something.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 6:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Good to hear somebody else is similar to me... But it's actually sad... Sad

I often feel I'm not so much acquainted with the casual topics and things, so I've usually nothing to say in some casual conversation... Embarassed

It's so ridiculous... and miserable... Confused


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 16, 2007 12:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 16, 2007 9:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Spearmint wrote:
What's with the poll spamming Marvolo?

It's flipping annoying, enough!


Have you any problem? It's no spamming, I just use the possibility which this forum gives. It's good to know what is others' opinion, they don't need even to answer the topic then - which is but limited here, as we all know, to 7 posts per day.

And if you don't like the polls, just don't vote in them. It's easy.

Cheers.


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 8:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You can see, Spearmint, you've scared other people so they don't want to write in this thread... Confused Arrow


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 4:56 am    Post subject: Re: I find it hard to meet people as I'm too boring, compari Reply with quote

Marvolo wrote:
As in the topic subject. Do you have so as me?

I know that they have simply more interesting casual life, and I both envy somehow and know I'm really boring in comparison... Sad Evil or Very Mad

What to do with it? Question I can't work it out...

Cheers!


When I came off zoloft, I lost my personality. Most of my body is numb and I'm emotionally blunt. I am still stuck in 2001 and will be till I die.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 5:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

when you can off zoloft you became numb?

i hear people say that when they're on zoloft they become numb, not care about relationships, like a zombie. but once they got off, they're social again.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 11:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

yep. I'm still not sure why.

I have a question for the OP. Did anyone ever make fun of you so bad for telling a joke that didn't go over, that maybe you were tramatized from ever joking around again?

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 7:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

SocialRetahd wrote:
yep. I'm still not sure why.

I have a question for the OP. Did anyone ever make fun of you so bad for telling a joke that didn't go over, that maybe you were tramatized from ever joking around again?


The OP? Who was it for? Question


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