Im new, so heres the deal with me :(

lolly · Newbie User Joined: Sep 25, 2007 Posts: 1

I have no idea why I blush!
I can be talking to someone, I won't feel embarresed or anything and then for no reason I start to go red, I have no idea why.

...but once you've gone red, people sometimes point it out, which makes it worse. It's really getting to me now. help!

BenBlade · Newbie User Joined: Jun 15, 2007 Posts: 11 Location: Uk

Hi,

You'll find many people are in exactly the same boat as yourself - but it doesn't feel like it all. I've never met anyone who blushes remotely like me, but through visiting sites like this you realise your not alone.

Are you confident? I am, but my fear of going red stops me in so many situations which is so frustrating Mad

I had a tv audition go wrong because of it recently.

-Andrew- · Posted: Wed Nov 28, 2007 9:07 pm Post subject:

Same deal here man. I go so red over nothing usually happens after work.. maybe im anxious to get home, but once the redness comes it seems to ever go away.

Lissa1990 · Newbie User Joined: Dec 26, 2007 Posts: 7

I go red all the time.
The best technique that Ive learned to use over the years is the method of distraction.
If someone asks you a question and u think youre gna go red, stand up and go and get something, reach into your bag and fiddle around, use youre mobile phone.
I basically find that I can control the redness as long as me or the other person is doing something else.
Whenever I go into the kitchen to ask my mum something I always get myself a drink so that shes not directly looking at me. It helps.

Lorenzo2008 · Posted: Thu Jan 03, 2008 4:05 am Post subject:

i now find i blush when people ask me why i blush. Weird? oh well im 23 and ive always blushed. But lately its been getting worse.

BenBlade · Newbie User Joined: Jun 15, 2007 Posts: 11 Location: Uk

Same here, 23 and always blushed. I thought it would get much better with age, but it seems to have got worse with age not better. Strange, as i accept it much more now.

OkieJ · Newbie User Joined: Jan 08, 2008 Posts: 1

I've had Blushing come with anxiety, followed by hives, and the best solution i've ever come up with is to move through it. But the hives kind of make that difficult.