Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 2:23 am Post subject: Update on my situation
Well, she has stopped talking to me...pretty much put up all her barriers. She told a coworker she would never mention me again and will move on for good this time
She even closes her classroom door (we work in a school) now when she KNOWS i am in the area of her room or on my way...we used to say are hellos & she would initiate conversation with me alot of the times...now she has closed me off. I knew the day after i said i wasn't interested (i am such an azz) and her door was closed that i was *uck'd!
And today she walked passed me in the hallway, looked like she would have said hello possibly cuz she looked right at me but i looked the other way and pretended like i didn't even see her, which was dumb cuz we practically walked into one another!!!!
Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 4:29 am Post subject: Re: Update on my situation
italia2007 wrote:
Well, she has stopped talking to me...pretty much put up all her barriers. She told a coworker she would never mention me again and will move on for good this time
She even closes her classroom door (we work in a school) now when she KNOWS i am in the area of her room or on my way...we used to say are hellos & she would initiate conversation with me alot of the times...now she has closed me off. I knew the day after i said i wasn't interested (i am such an azz) and her door was closed that i was *uck'd!
And today she walked passed me in the hallway, looked like she would have said hello possibly cuz she looked right at me but i looked the other way and pretended like i didn't even see her, which was dumb cuz we practically walked into one another!!!!
First, i would grow some balls in this lifetime and be able to directly look her in the eyes and tell her that i am sorry that i did this to her, that i feel EXACTLY the same way and finally be happy (with her) in my life...if she would have me.
But i don't have the balls to do it, i have so many problems why would she want me when she can have anyone she wants???
First, i would grow some balls in this lifetime and be able to directly look her in the eyes and tell her that i am sorry that i did this to her, that i feel EXACTLY the same way and finally be happy (with her) in my life...if she would have me.
But i don't have the balls to do it, i have so many problems why would she want me when she can have anyone she wants???
well - suggestion : Try to write her a note. Maybe some rhyme? I used to do it, put some rhyme of mine-just because it didnt work in my case , doesnt mean it might not work in yours
Honestly, i don't know if it would help bcuz we are in the same building and she may think i'm immature (more than she already sees...lol) but hey, maybe it would help, i guess anything is possible.
We didn't even look at one another today We walked by each other and acted like the other wasn't there. I'd give anything to go back to the days of being able to say "hi" to her with some confidence and she would always say hello back with a smile...and sometimes she would start a conversation as well.
I feel like such an azz bcuz i turned her down and turned her off apparently but yet if feel like the wounded one and all she is doing is what i requested! Uggggggggh
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Posted: Thu Nov 08, 2007 1:29 am Post subject:
italia2007 wrote:
How would i like it to end?
First, i would grow some balls in this lifetime and be able to directly look her in the eyes and tell her that i am sorry that i did this to her, that i feel EXACTLY the same way and finally be happy (with her) in my life...if she would have me.
But i don't have the balls to do it, i have so many problems why would she want me when she can have anyone she wants???
It's obvious that she has feelings for you. Apologize to her for whatever wrongs you have done, and tell her that you care about her.
Italia - you're worried that it would be a bit immature for a note, rhyme. OK - But doing nothing will not solve a thing... you have to do something. The definition of stupidity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result
My suggestion. (You must be willing to "throw caution to the wind). I'm not saying this for all (but this technique certainly worked for winning my heart). Check it out with some other ladies!
She still has feelings right (otherwise she wouldn't bother ignoring you). So really you can't lose.
Arrange for a bunch of red roses to be delivered to her office (make sure you put a card on it saying... sorry, can I have another chance) Make sure the roses are professionally delivered. If she responds great - if she doesn't at least you've tried.
Yeah is this just a coincidence but Bella1968 seems to be talking about the same situation as you. Is this a hoax or is it for real? if it's for real, I suggest you read each other's posts and then maybe you will understand where each other is coming from. nothing worse than lack of communication or incorrectly guessing what the other is thinking to kill of a potential relationship.
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in this lifetime and be able to directly look her in the eyes and tell her that i am sorry that i did this to her, that i feel EXACTLY the same way and finally be happy (with her) in my life...if she would have me.
why would she want me when she can have anyone she wants???
We walked by each other and acted like the other wasn't there. I'd give anything to go back to the days of being able to say "hi" to her with some confidence and she would always say hello back with a smile...and sometimes she would start a conversation as well.
