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Bekkzy · Newbie User Joined: Jan 30, 2008 Posts: 3

Im a 15 year old girl and I absolutely hate it when random people who don't even know me just say im to shy. And then you get all the "popular" people taking the piss out of you, and it just really gets to me. Especially in lessons, when you've got someone sat next to you, and i suppose they dont really say anything to harsh but they know they're intimidating me. Its also extremelly embarrassing i can tell people just think what a loser, what a nerd and stuff like that. With my mates im a completely different person im outgoing, we have fun and then someone comes that i dont know and im just silent and pathetic. I guess if i know someone as been quiet, but not exactly know them ill be loud with them, and theyll be loud back. I get on really well with shyer people. Like me Smile

I hate working with people i dont know because i just tend to think whats the point? Ive tried been more confident, but once people get it into their heads your a quiet, boring person with no personality they dont give you a chance. Sad

At the moment im trying to sort myself out because all i want is to be able to hold a decent conversation with people im not necessarily great friends with. I think its my looks thats causing the most problems so maybe losing a bit of weight might help? I dont know but its worth a try Very Happy

What a rant this is turning into Wink

My real personality is probably bubbly, kind when my friends need me but otherwise i like to have a bit of a laugh with them like pretend little fights Smile

I just LOVE talking when im with people im close to i never shut up and i guess i can be a bit weird but hey Smile

Everyone can be Wink

But then i walk past a group of loud people and im just paranoid they're going to say something its just UGHH so annoying. They even get the impression im uber nice, ill do all the work like a little geek whilst they sit back and do nothing, that they can just walk all over me and its like err no lovey just because im quiet doesnt mean im a nerd. Im a decentish person but i can be a bitch like every normal girl, i have mood swings (highly dangerous babes Wink

) and GODD. bah Smile

Sooo i guess the point in all that was do any of you guys feel like that, cuz yeh u probs do this is a shy thingy innit Smile

And godd dont u just hate it when theres everyone around you talking and you're sat there in silence like yehh fun fun Very Happy

Major annoying <3 But seriously guys we shouldnt let the loud ones piss us off to much Smile

We deserve respect mateees! Wink

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ghest_3 · Newbie User Joined: Feb 04, 2008 Posts: 5

Well said and ranting is allowed!

i could not agree more with what you said. try not to be too skeptical of what other people think though. Try to think more positively.

this-is-y-im-hot · Newbie User Joined: Jul 23, 2007 Posts: 23

People r as people r. people want something for nothing, ill admit i do! if i can have something for doin complete sod all then i will. i will also manipulate a situation to my advantage, its a case of get screwed over, or doin some screwin over. although i tend to try the everyone wins method first im not a arsehole honest lol
i think best thing to do, is state your boundries from the get go!
no point a battered wife saying after 3 times of accepting bein battered...i dont want to be battered no more, shes already said its ok by accepting it the first time! but on the same line...no point saying it, actions speak louser than words.
my advice to u would be, in a group task. sit back and do nothing as well if everyone else insists on giving no imput. maybe use some subtle cues like 'we should really make a start' if no one moved. just think ah fuck it. and sit back and relax lol. i