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Kien Expert User


Joined: Feb 23, 2008 Posts: 634 Location: Sweden
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Posted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 6:42 pm Post subject: Females shy of males? |
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It's not too seldom that you read/hear about boys being shy infront of girls but what about the opposite ? Anyone here who can tell if this is just as common? :}
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sidney Intermediate User


Joined: Jul 30, 2007 Posts: 208 Location: N.Ireland UK
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Posted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 7:07 pm Post subject: |
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Hell yeah!!
i get really scared round guys like i cant seem to sit still im always paranoid something about me isnt right, also im a real bad blusher so im scared they'll get the wrong idea or just think im weird 
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Primrose Newbie User


Joined: Sep 14, 2007 Posts: 74
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Posted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 7:08 pm Post subject: |
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Can only speak for myself and say that I'm not shy around guys, but the second I want to impress them, it's as if my brain switches off. Bloody irritating.
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IcarusUnderWater2 Intermediate User


Joined: Mar 15, 2008 Posts: 199
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Posted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 7:45 pm Post subject: |
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| sidney wrote: | Hell yeah!!
i get really scared round guys like i cant seem to sit still im always paranoid something about me isnt right, also im a real bad blusher so im scared they'll get the wrong idea or just think im weird  |
What do you mean the wrong idea?? You mean you blush around guys you don't like aswell??
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coriander1992 Expert User


Joined: Jan 07, 2007 Posts: 582 Location: Lincolnshire
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Posted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 9:26 pm Post subject: |
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Incredibly shy around them...can't even sit next to one or anything!
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RedRibbons Advanced User


Joined: Oct 22, 2007 Posts: 390 Location: Canada
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Posted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 10:11 pm Post subject: |
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Yarp. I can be confident and sociable.. but.. with some guys, I'm just a wreck... Those some guys being ones that I'm interested in. :p
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livingnsilence Newbie User


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I'm more shy around guys thn girls. For me to talk to talk to a guy I have to be drunk to do it willingly.
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Luna Newbie User


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Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 2:54 am Post subject: |
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I am terrified of guys and have never dated a lot (even though I'm told all the time how attractive I am)
If I'm so "attractive" and I'm a female, why, I wonder, do I NEVER get asked out? If I do get asked out, the male loses interest in me in 4 weeks.
So to answer the question, I am terrified of men, even though I like them so much. I've always been drawn to shy guys (my boyfriend also has SA). Outgoing "stud" men have never really liked me or hit on me. Probably because they see me as boring or whatever.
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sidney Intermediate User


Joined: Jul 30, 2007 Posts: 208 Location: N.Ireland UK
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Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 12:33 pm Post subject: |
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| Quote: | sidney wrote:
Hell yeah!!
i get really scared round guys like i cant seem to sit still im always paranoid something about me isnt right, also im a real bad blusher so im scared they'll get the wrong idea or just think im weird
What do you mean the wrong idea?? You mean you blush around guys you don't like aswell?? |
yes, i'll blush round any guy at anytime, i just cant control it but sometimes guys get the wrong idea & so do my friends then if im teased about it i go even redder which really makes they think i like them which is what i was afraid of to begin with so its sort of self fufilling
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Caseums21 Intermediate User


Joined: Jan 06, 2008 Posts: 115
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Posted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 1:10 pm Post subject: |
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I'm fine around guys when we are friends but as soon as they say that they like me, I freeze up. I don't know what to say or talk about especially if I don't have the same feelings towards them. I get really nervous and panic and usually I push them away. I hate doing that to them because I would hate that but I don't know what else to do.
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