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lifesnotfair
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 3:54 am    Post subject: loneliness and other bullshit Reply with quote

Right now i am just so pissed ff with life. its so frustratisng that i am theonly guy out of all the people i know that is single, has no interests, does not want to go out, and have women reject him all the time

people tell me i should get out and try and meet new people. Well i am not exaggerating when i tell you that every attempt in me doing this has been a clusterfuck, and has turned out to be a very bad experience. I have not had one experience when i have gone to meet new people that has turned out to be positive. So i have no reason to go out again, little lone want to get into that situation again.

You may think, well.. its hopeless then. I totally agree. I am tired of seeing all my friends happy, married, or in a relationship. ven they have a life. I know people half my age that are more successful than i am. My brother and sister have a way better life than i do, and i am the older one of them.

to sum it up, give up on getting a women, because it is so very hopeless for me to even dream about getting a women. I was confident and sure of myself once, however it did not make a difference if i was confident or not, Girls hated me, they thought i was a nerd or a geek, i was different, always got made fun of, and people expect me to actually leave all that in the past and continue on with your life. Well if you have had nothing but bad experiences in your life, it is impossible to think that your life is going to change for the better.

oh btw, there is this person who i like, however every women that i like is not single and won't give me the time of day. well fuck it, life suxs and apparently so do i
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 4:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know how you feel, all my friends and almost everyone in my family (brother, sister, and cousins) are in relationships while I have yet to experience anything close to what they experience with the people they love. My parents and grandparents are always saying oh well go get a job and you'll come out of your shell, you'll meet new people. Well I've tried to and I can't. Frankly I don't want to when I feel like crap all the time. I want to meet new people so bad but I just can't get out there. I know how you feel buddy.
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 11:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

A good thing is that you don't fall for the "there's someone for everyone". You see the truth and doesn't give yourself false hope. I see it as natural that I wont have any woman. Some people can not attract the opposit gender. But a lot of people are stupid and doesn't understand this.
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 24, 2008 4:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

well right ow i am so angry with life in general that it is not funny. I hate it all
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 7:22 pm    Post subject: hello Reply with quote

yeah i agree like is fuck i hate life better off dead. but im in the same situation aswell im 17 and a vergin crist how embarrising.

if you want you can pm


Smile ill look forward to talking to you
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 7:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know exactly how you feel, but don't get too down on yourself.
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lifesnotfair
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 11:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

and y not? why should i not stress over it. I am nearly 30 years old and never have kissed a girl, little lone had a relationship with one. Which is sad isn't it Sad
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 12:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

lifesnotfair wrote:
and y not? why should i not stress over it. I am nearly 30 years old and never have kissed a girl, little lone had a relationship with one. Which is sad isn't it Sad


Its not sad. You have all the experiences in front of you but you have to make sure you do something to make them happen. Everything is in front of you!!
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 7:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

IcarusUnderWater2 wrote:
lifesnotfair wrote:
and y not? why should i not stress over it. I am nearly 30 years old and never have kissed a girl, little lone had a relationship with one. Which is sad isn't it Sad


Its not sad. You have all the experiences in front of you but you have to make sure you do something to make them happen. Everything is in front of you!!


Inexperience is not a good quality.

I am upset that I was even born into this superficial world that makes you feel like shit for things you have no control over.
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 9:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

SocialRetahd wrote:
IcarusUnderWater2 wrote:
lifesnotfair wrote:
and y not? why should i not stress over it. I am nearly 30 years old and never have kissed a girl, little lone had a relationship with one. Which is sad isn't it Sad


Its not sad. You have all the experiences in front of you but you have to make sure you do something to make them happen. Everything is in front of you!!


Inexperience is not a good quality.

I am upset that I was even born into this superficial world that makes you feel like shit for things you have no control over.


Feeling sorry for yourself isn't going to get you any experience though. You have to save up all that sadness and use it productively so you can start living.
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