the real u !!

LA323 · Posted: Mon Feb 21, 2005 2:59 am Post subject: the real u !!

do u think that if u didnt have SA at all, would u be a different person, because i would see myself being a quiet person but outgoing, and up 4 new things and stuff, and if u would b a diferent person what kind of person would u b

Guest · Posted: Tue Feb 22, 2005 12:58 pm Post subject:

you know, the more i admit i have got a social phobia the more i get caught up in it.

catch 21 situation i think of sa's.

if i were to get past it i would be very outgoing and maybe think of myself differently, ultimatley being more confident about myself doing things ive wanted to... even small things like strolling around a few shops, meeting new people, going out and having a laugh.

i hate the fact that people may think someone rude or arrogant if they have an sa because of their lack of confidence to even communicate.

Rolling Eyes

Yossarian · Posted: Tue Feb 22, 2005 10:49 pm Post subject:

I reckon I'd be the same as I am now. Except maybe able to go out and buy socks when I need them etc.

pitkreet · Posted: Tue Feb 22, 2005 11:10 pm Post subject:

If I didn't have SA, I reckon I'd be a stunt-double for Noel Edmonds.

Yossarian · Posted: Tue Feb 22, 2005 11:20 pm Post subject:

Wouldn't you want to work then? Very Happy

pitkreet · Posted: Tue Feb 22, 2005 11:35 pm Post subject:

only weekends, when I'd be a stand-in for his beard - he's very nervous about taking it out on the razzle so prefers to leave it in his safe and employs someone as his beard when he goes down the bingo

that someone would probably be me, but for my ambition-thwarting SA Crying or Very sad

Horatio · Posted: Wed Feb 23, 2005 12:38 pm Post subject:

yes if I didn't have SA I would be a very different person

back when I was younger before I had SA and depression I used to be very outgoing, even though at school my attempts to socialise usually resulted in a kick in the groin and a fist in my face

if I didnt have SA I think I would still be weird, but a lot more out going. Probably a bit of a clown cause I love to have a laugh from time to time and would defintely be up for adventures. Adventures rather suck when you don't have anyone to share them with, if I didnt have SA then I would be out adventurneering a lot more

Hype1010 · Posted: Wed Feb 23, 2005 5:54 pm Post subject:

If I didn't have SA, i'ld probably be more arrogant, sarcastic and opinionated, judging on what I used to be. So maybe SA is really either a blessing or a punishment for me and what I used to be...

Hype1010