Urm some advice please? :)

toothpastekisses · Posted: Sat May 17, 2008 10:54 pm Post subject: Urm some advice please? :)

Okay, so I think I've met my soulmate. I know it sounds really cheesy and lame, but it's true *cringe*. I've known him for about two years but have only spoken to him a few times and he's lovely. When I over-hear him talking about stuff he says everything I would say in the given situation, and we have SO much in common it's untrue. My effing SA makes it almost impossible to let him know this though. When we're together there's this extremely weird chemistry sorta thing going on, I can't describe it but I think he knows it too. Sometimes he'll try and get me to chat in a group with him and others in class but I can't be myself, I get so frustrated with this. And he has an amazing dry sense of humour, I'm constantly giggling like an idiot when he says something. Thing is, we'll be leaving college in a couple of weeks for new uni lives so I'll probably never see him again. Sob Sad

. What the hell do I do?
(I hope this post doesn't make me sound like some obsessed bunny boiler type :s)

IcarusUnderWater2 · Intermediate User Joined: Mar 15, 2008 Posts: 209

you have to tell him!

OR... ask him to meet up and go to the cinema or something.

Then there will be no regrets.

drd77 · Posted: Sun May 18, 2008 12:58 am Post subject:

you only live once. when it's over, it's over. you will feel far worse if you don't say anything at all, then if you do and he doesn't feel the same about you. go for it.

toothpastekisses · Posted: Sun May 18, 2008 1:10 am Post subject:

Thanks guys. Thing is, I dont think i'd physically be able to tell him like a normal, rational person would Embarassed

. I mean I'm not rly friendly with him or anything and I'd be so worried about rejection!

drd77 · Posted: Sun May 18, 2008 1:25 am Post subject:

who cares. as long as you try, that's all that matters.

Edith · Intermediate User Joined: Feb 08, 2008 Posts: 110

Do SOMETHING!! If you just let it go you WILL regret it... beleive me ... and that hurts far more than rejection.

DO SOMETHING!! Good luck Wink

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IcarusUnderWater2 · Intermediate User Joined: Mar 15, 2008 Posts: 209

Just tell him how you feel in an EMAIL or text message!! Makes no difference whether it's in person or not.

You have to find out what he actually thinks rather than just guessing and worrying. Get to communicatin'!! ! ! Razz