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shyboy1
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 10:30 am    Post subject: Scared of girls? Reply with quote

I go all anxious and feel all light headed when 'hot white' girls are walking past me. I generally feel anxious around all girls though, I usually blush when I talk to them and yeah.... Embarassed

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 11:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I feel the same with boys

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 2:20 pm    Post subject: Scared of girls? Reply with quote

*tiptoes hesitantly up to mirror, peers timidly at reflection. Screams wildly and runs away into the distance waving arms manicaly*

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 2:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm fine with girls, its men I have trouble with


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 6:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i was thinking about this yesterday, i used to be the same way as shyboy1 and blush etc when i talked to a guy i was attracted to but now i find myself generally more comfortable around guys whether i'm attracted to them or not. (though a big group of either sex still gives me the heeby geebies)

i was sitting on a crowed bus and the seats were filling up, there was an empty one next to me and i found myself getting anxious everytime a girl walked by. i guess i just feel like guys wouldn't pay attention to me whereas girls tend to pay more attention to you, what you're wearing, name brand clothes, etc.

a guy did end up sitting next to me and i was relieved knowing that i could sit in peace unnoticed... as far an i knew Rolling Eyes

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 10, 2005 1:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

well i am not going to give women the time of day anymore since they do not give me the time of day back..

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 10, 2005 2:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Both sexes make me nervous at times.


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 15, 2005 9:10 am    Post subject: racism Reply with quote

hello there shy boy............. I'm a white person myself but find it rather appalling that u'd use the term "hot white girls"................ (which implies that women of other races are ugly)

I'm all for anti-racism. Cant tolerate racism mate, so please choose your words wisely when posting messages here.

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 15, 2005 9:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I couldnt see anything racist in what he said myself.

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 15, 2005 10:00 am    Post subject: Re: racism Reply with quote

sugaj wrote:
hello there shy boy............. I'm a white person myself but find it rather appalling that u'd use the term "hot white girls"................ (which implies that women of other races are ugly)

I'm all for anti-racism. Cant tolerate racism mate, so please choose your words wisely when posting messages here.


I think that he meant white hot, you know, extra hot not a colour thing.


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