obsessional past

kittykat90 · Newbie User Joined: Mar 25, 2008 Posts: 15

i have this thing where i constantley talk and think about the past i carnt have the same things as the people i knew like i carnt be the same age so i twist and turn so i think they are not my age. i also have to work out why are the people like this and work out the things they say like why do they say that. or do that. i constantley think about it i dont beleave any one will understand. i like to have friends hew are like this hew experiance this but i dont beleave ill get any one hew wants to be my friend on this site. i have alot of issues i justy dont know where to start i thought i was getting better but this just got worse.

i hope people will understand?

big hugs

IcarusUnderWater · Advanced User Joined: Dec 24, 2007 Posts: 402

ok can you explain a bit more Smile

I think i get what your sayin but im not sure.

Hugs back at ya! Very Happy

kittykat90 · Newbie User Joined: Mar 25, 2008 Posts: 15

explain abit more ok well i feel controled by it. like things i do i feel like i carnt do them because i feel controled my this force. i have to explain about the person to my self but i do ask others about it to.

thats as much as i can explain im not very good at explaining much. it will take some forms to explain all my issues. this is just one issue i have Embarassed

kittykat90 · Newbie User Joined: Mar 25, 2008 Posts: 15

it doesnt seem much people hew want to talk to me about this am i just the only one hew has this?

zootdroop · Posted: Wed Jul 16, 2008 9:31 pm Post subject:

I know how it feels to not be able to explain things, it's always hard for me to get my feelings and stuff out in words for people to understand. It's frustrating.

I don't know if I understand totally what you are saying. It seems you can't relate to people your own age right? I can't either, I used to tell people I was younger than I was so they wouldn't think I was weird when they found out I lived with my parents or never had a girlfriend or a drivers license, things like that. You just think too much about things, I do the same thing. Every little thing I over analyze and think to death, even things I did or said years ago or something someone did to me or said to me years ago...plus I like to psychoanalyze everybody, try and understand what makes them tick, why the do or say what they do. I do the same thing to myself too...is that it?... Question

Pinker · Posted: Wed Jul 16, 2008 9:46 pm Post subject:

CPA23 · Newbie User Joined: Apr 21, 2008 Posts: 45

DITTO to everything that was said. I do understand as I am also stuck in the past. I could easily think of things that happened 5, 10 or even 12 years ago. I am only 23 but I find that this is very hard to control. These are things that everybody else have long forgotten but I always remember very vividly. I sometimes even have to take sleeping pills because my non-stop mind keeps me up at night. It is extremely frustrating!!!

rodya · Newbie User Joined: Jul 16, 2008 Posts: 3

I pretty much have that problem too, past relationships, a dead parent, bad experiances.. all the nasty stuff Smile

I just keep telling myself that now theres nothing to be done about it and that i just have to keep going...but yes, it's verry frustrating..

kittykat90 · Newbie User Joined: Mar 25, 2008 Posts: 15

dead perant crist what happened? do you mind me asking what country ya come from im in the uk.

kittykat90 · Newbie User Joined: Mar 25, 2008 Posts: 15

hello again every one.