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AaronAgassi
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 7:41 pm    Post subject: "Why must you blame others all the time?" Reply with quote

I am sometimes asked why I blame others for my troubles. The answer is not merely in my failure to see underhanded conniving bullying, ostracism, spite, abuse, dirty tricks, extreme harassment, the vilest and ever escalating character assassination, outrageous slander and taboo as the issue of sound sober judgment and fair-minded justice, but also from such experiences as discovering how at one convention I attended, the complaints against me actually began a full day before my arrival! Of course, just because there are, indeed, enemies who have it in for me, does not actually rule out any failings or misdeed on my own as well. But by Occam's Razor, it does eliminate the explanatory necessity. Indeed, simply because they must have motive, does not make their motives reasonable or just. Especially considering the destructive and dishonest means they employ, and their ongoing refusal to talk things over with me like decent responsible adults. They are the cowards with anything to hide, not me. Again, this is only to explain why I reject the "justice" of a mob of cliquish bullies, not any refusal to hear out and respond to whatsoever reasonably presented grievance howsoever to my face. Furthermore, I completely endorse the right simply of anyone to associate with anyone else or not as they please. I only object to relational bullying designed to isolate and sabotage free choice and contact between others entirely.


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 9:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

??What do you do to make them hate you like that????

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 9:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, that's a loaded question!


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 12:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The abuser is ALWAYS to blame for the abusive behaviour. There is NO excuse. No one EVER deserves to be bullied.

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2008 12:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There is no deserve. Morality is an invention. I just don't want to hurt others unprovoked.

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2008 12:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

yeh what convention was this? and what was it u were doing at this convention

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2008 12:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The convention is a weekend social event that might not be familiar to you, one among many for a particular community of a shared interest or enthusiasm. I was simply attending the convention.


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