finding it difficult to speak

xabbashiax · Newbie User Joined: Jul 29, 2008 Posts: 35

I find it so hard to speak I stutter mix up my words and loose my train of thought it's so hard to keep a conversation. It is actually like I am scared to speak. The thing is this is not really me because at home when talking to my family i have no problems it's only when talking to other people I'm so fustrated and I feel like iv've tried everything. Someone please help.

IcarusUnderWater · Advanced User Joined: Dec 24, 2007 Posts: 401

I totally relate to the panic... and in situations outside th epeople i know... i am scared to speak most of the time, unless someone speaks to me first.

xabbashiax · Newbie User Joined: Jul 29, 2008 Posts: 35

do you cope at all. I feel like i can't do one of the most basic human things which is to talk. It annoys me because people start to become patronising and i find it hard to form attatchments

AaronAgassi · Newbie User Joined: Jul 28, 2006 Posts: 25

Pardon me, but us there a connection to bullying, or does this thread need to be transferred to the correct forum?

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xabbashiax · Newbie User Joined: Jul 29, 2008 Posts: 35

yeah it does have a connection with bullying. I was bullied but when I stopped talking people left me alone. Because of that I'm now scared to speak probs because i think i'll get bullied again.

AaronAgassi · Newbie User Joined: Jul 28, 2006 Posts: 25

It's like they want to force others underground.

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