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Dodger
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 03, 2008 10:09 pm    Post subject: Why are girls hard to talk to? Reply with quote

So when ever I like a girl I want to talk to her but when I see her I get too scared and I can't talk to her. I always feel like I will be rejected by her.

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 03, 2008 10:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

That is the reason, for fear of being rejected in your face. Younger people will send notes because of that, so try that if you wanna.


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 03, 2008 11:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Girls don't like nice or shy guys.


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 03, 2008 11:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I can be shy and when I met nice shy guys that I didn't know I always got the impression they were not interested and then I thought maybe it's just me!

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 03, 2008 11:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 04, 2008 12:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kien wrote:
Girls don't like nice or shy guys.


I have noticed that. It does not make sense to me how a guy that would treat a girl the way she should be gets no respect from girls and then guys who treat them horribly get respect from girls in general. Then there is me who finds it so hard just to talk to a girl in general.

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 04, 2008 1:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dodger wrote:
Kien wrote:
Girls don't like nice or shy guys.


I have noticed that. It does not make sense to me how a guy that would treat a girl the way she should be gets no respect from girls and then guys who treat them horribly get respect from girls in general. Then there is me who finds it so hard just to talk to a girl in general.

It's one of the biggest and well known mysteris in life. People have asked and discussed about it many times (not just here).


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 04, 2008 1:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Girls are hard to talk to because you are trying to please them.

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 04, 2008 5:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't think that girls are hard to talk to. It's the SA that makes it difficult.

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 04, 2008 5:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

trust me man you're gonna get rejected 30 times before you get one girl to like you....but it's worth it!!!! Just don't let it get you down!!

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