just woundering if if anyone at one time wasnt shy

Hellraising · Intermediate User Joined: Apr 07, 2005 Posts: 260

Yes, I'm the total opposite right now. I used to be really outgoing, I loved being at the center of attention, and I would do almost anything to get attention. Now, I'm housebound, friendless, I rarely talk, always behind closed doors and I don't shower.

So, you're not the only one. Smile

shyguy05 · Posted: Thu May 19, 2005 6:25 am Post subject:

Hellraising · Intermediate User Joined: Apr 07, 2005 Posts: 260

You didn't recieve my reply?

I said I wasn't sure. It's probably because of many reasons, but the main one would be a low self esteem. What do you think caused yours?

shyguy05 · Posted: Thu May 19, 2005 6:34 am Post subject:

Hellraising · Intermediate User Joined: Apr 07, 2005 Posts: 260

Are you certain that's the only thing that caused it? Because I don't think you can become 'shy' just like that. If that's what you think really caused you to become like this, then I wouldn't say that you're shy. But instead, you could possibly be afraid of something? Like you said you weren't able to make new friends, did you try? Maybe you're afraid of rejection. It could be alot of other factors. This is my point of view, it's up to you to figure out the real cause yourself.

I'm not sure if you received my reply to your PM, but I said I do have AIM. It's Hellraising88. I'm online right now.

tupac · Posted: Fri May 20, 2005 3:51 am Post subject:

i've always been shy, there have been times when i had too much to drink and really lost control. but i dont remember what i did cause i was too drunk.

mrblack · Posted: Thu May 26, 2005 2:54 pm Post subject:

i have my ups and downs. some days are horrible. some are good. i need to start taking notes on the little things that probably matter. tone of voice. body language. compusure. speech speed etc.

B-girl · Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2005 6:00 am Post subject:

Shy is something i've been all my life. i have one brother though who is the total opposite he is outgoing, funny and i'm the opposite. i think i was like this since 4ever. when i was born my mom told me that when i came out i didn't cry. They had to hit me to cry a little and even then it wasn't much. Now with my brother i was just down the hall a little bit and could hear his screams he cried all night and had to be separated from the other babies so they could sleep!!!! Very Happy

now that right there was like telling the future!
bgirl

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michel18 · Newbie User Joined: Sep 29, 2006 Posts: 22

i always always have been shy.

tho when around certain people or in rare occasions
with some strangers, where i surprised myself and wasnt.

maybe flashbacks from another life.