why do women like assholes?

kevincadogan · Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 12:11 am Post subject: why do women like assholes?

why do girls usually choose assholes for boyfriends instead of niceguys?i have sa,and iam a nice guy.u would think thats what a girl would be looking for,someone that wouldnt treat her like crap.i dont know,i cant figure it out.

r0ck0ut04 · Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 1:10 am Post subject:

Good queston I been trying to figure that out since highschool. The hot chicks always went for the scumbags still seems that way whenever I go out. And it doesnt get any easier finding chicks as you get older.

redlady · Elite User Joined: Jul 08, 2005 Posts: 1958

kevincadogan wrote:

Nvenya · Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 6:31 am Post subject:

It does seem that the jerks have a bit more confidence when it comes to asking out women. I personally am not into jerks. My boyfriend is very sweet, though he does tend to be on the macho side at times.

I think women pick men for different reasons. Some for money, stability, sex appeal, looks, excitement, background(social status)...etc. It might be a matter of need. I haven't a clue really since I'm not into the bad guys. I'm also not into changing other people, though I know some women are. They have this need to change a man and trying to change a bad boy into what they want might satisfy this need. This subject isn't something you can generalize and get an answer from. Example: A former friend of mine dated a so-called bad boy once to get back at her parents.

Good luck. Sometimes it just takes time, the right woman and some confidence in yourself.

Hellraising · Intermediate User Joined: Apr 07, 2005 Posts: 260

You're not with the right girls.

Remus · Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 9:48 am Post subject:

thugaveli · Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 12:49 pm Post subject:

I think girls like guys who are confident appose to people like us

At school girls seemed to be attracted to idiots, crazy guys with attitude

kattness · Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 2:38 pm Post subject:

ive had a good few assholes for boyfriends.....i guess it is all about confidence also.
though they all start out as "nice guys" then turn on you.....i guess change.
what i wouldnt give for a nirvana loveing geeky boy to treat me right Sad

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black_mamba · Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 6:39 pm Post subject: Re: why do women like assholes?

Bexi · Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 9:19 pm Post subject:

i like a guy who keeps me on my toes abit, i don't want an ass kisser, but i don't want a meany either! I'd like a sensitive, affectionate guy...please??