Lonely guy..just broke up with GF.

Nytro

Hello

Im 21 from NJ and starting to feel really lonely, been broken up with my girlfriend for 2 weeks now, since weve been going out for 3 years it really huts. Embarassed

Lol, ive been getting some sad vibes even from this site, I dunno if im agrivating people or not but alot of what I have to say is solid advise. I just never get any feedback on them, kinda like im talking to the wall.
So maybe im not posting what people want to hear?

I dunno what im doing wrong, one of my bad traits is im so damn sensitive and knock myself way too much. And Its hard to get out of this hole when I feel as if I have no support.

Anyways ill keep on writing...

chav · Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2005 9:54 pm Post subject:

feel sorry 4 ya - neva been thru it maself, but im sure others no how ur feelin

carebear · Intermediate User Joined: Oct 25, 2005 Posts: 126

chav,
you are a trip...are you sure your depressed?? Shocked

i'm sorry for asking but you are just too funny! Laughing

chav · Posted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 12:41 pm Post subject:

erm... yeh. dont mean 2 b funny i just like 2 hav a laugh!

carebear · Intermediate User Joined: Oct 25, 2005 Posts: 126

i know chav..i know... Wink

that's cool though that you have such a a sense of humor about sa.
laughter makes you live longer ya know! Laughing

TigerShark · Newbie User Joined: Oct 02, 2005 Posts: 27

Man, I completely hear you on the feeling lonely thing, and know the feeling of being loved and losing it. And don't ever feel like your talking to a brick wall in here. Trust me, I'm sure alot of us feel the exact same way sometimes, I know I do. But that's just our insecurities messing with us. The internet is a very impersonal way to communicate, unfortunately, that's the best that alot of us in this chat forum can do. I'm sure if you crowded all of us together in a real room where we could talk, all of us would click with eachother pretty fast, and it'd be a very warm and positive room.

Nytro · Posted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 11:41 pm Post subject:

Probably would but It would take a bit more time for us to open our mouths and think of somehting to say.

Chilling__Echo · Posted: Sat Nov 12, 2005 3:50 am Post subject:

hey nytro, sorry you're not too happy right now. mini message me next time you're online, unless i see you first

over the summer my 3 yr relationship ended so i deffinately know what you're going through. depression, will i find someone again, what's there now?, feeling like you have no friends, grief over the loss, getting used to life after them

i dont know where to start.

but i will say that there is life after this. you WILL feel better and your life will go on and things will get better. it's just taking it one day at a time. and do all the cliche advise people always give for this. stay busy, meet knew people, take this time to learn about YOURSELF.

about the site, sorry you're feeling unhappy about it so far, but don't leave, stick around. say what's on your mind.

like i say, message me, i'd love to talk to you. good luck and my heart goes out to you

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you are lucky man you at least had a girl friend

but me i didn't ever have a girl friend and i am 21 years now

xXunprettyXx · Posted: Sun Jun 11, 2006 10:33 pm Post subject:

Hi,

wow, i'm really sorry to hear that. It must be hard to deal with. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and we are having major problems, or i think maybe i'm the problem. i'm really scared to lose him because i really care about him, and i feel like it's all my fault that we are falling apart. Im so scared he doesnt care about me and i know i love him, but things are just getting messed up. i hope you are okay though. i wouldnt have been as strong as you to try to move on. your strong. ur giving people advice. that's all u can do. it's the other persons decision to take ur advice or not. people are strange like that. they want advice but they don't use it or like it when they get it.

U'll find someone else that will love u, dont worry. no one is meant to be alone in this world. no one.

unpretty

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