Regrets

Aerandir · Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 2:23 am Post subject: Regrets

Is there one single thing you regret the most, and would like to go back to change it?

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Aerandir · Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 2:24 am Post subject:

Me, i'd like to go back the precise day I made this decision that led me to my current life (with SA) and take the opposite decision.. but the problem is, I can't do that and I don't know what decision it was...

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redlady · Elite User Joined: Jul 08, 2005 Posts: 1958

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Chilling__Echo · Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 2:59 am Post subject:

i like to say that i regret "this" or "that" but i also believe that things happen for a reason. life is a journey and a learning experience, so as long as i got something out of whatever happened or whatever i did, i try to let it go...

one thing though would have to be staying mad at my dad for so long... *sigh* yeah that one hurt, i know how you feel redlady, i'm sorry you're carrying those burdens - wish i could make them go away! Sad

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redlady · Elite User Joined: Jul 08, 2005 Posts: 1958

Thanks Chilli Wink

- i am sure i will get over them someday.

young · Expert User Joined: Sep 23, 2005 Posts: 602

I don't have any regrets. I've learned from every mistake i've made. Sure i wish some things went a better way. Or had a better outcome. But i forget that thought. Or i'd go mad wishing I could change it. You can't change the past. You can only alter the future. That sounds like a hallamark card. w00t!

4myself · Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 4:44 am Post subject:

I'm with Young on this one. There are certainly things that I wish that I hadn't done or had done as long as you learn from mistakes then you wont end up repeating them.

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Olivier25 · Newbie User Joined: Nov 20, 2005 Posts: 22

well since nobody has the balls to say what they regret i ll do it....
(im kidding ; ))

i remember like it was yesturday...

at 15, at school. My SA became is real big problem and
it even manifested itself in the form that i was always feeling
like going to pee. my whole body was so stressed i just had to go
many times a day.

So much i even got a paper that said i could go anytime during class
can u believe it.

anyway,
after a while it was so bad and i felt so stupid and humiliated
from going to the bsathroom all the times(+ my regular SA)
that one day, instead of going to my next class, i put on my coat,
made a decision icouldnt g o on at school, went outside.
Walked the street in front of school for awhile, turned around and looked at my school like it was the last time id go there ever, sort of a
goodbye last look and went home.

Since that day at 15 i stayed at home most of the time like an hermit for almost 10 years. Never had a job in that time and saw only rarely my
last friend left.

i can remember looking back at my school so vividly, as it was
the crucial moment of my life that made me wasted all my youth
and my dynamism.

beside that, i regret have drinking so much whine and beer 3 days ago.
lol

now im mostly over my SA but i still have to build myself a life
and social life which im very slowly starting.

jamez · Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 7:22 am Post subject:

I got quite a few, I try not to dwell on it though.

I'm with Chilling_Echo, I believe everything happens for a reason and it will all work out for me in the end.

Olivier25 · Newbie User Joined: Nov 20, 2005 Posts: 22

of course, no one should dwell on anything.

i know its a zen cliche but theres nothing but the present.

The only thing that "is", is "here and now".

Olivier