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jinxed
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 7:17 am    Post subject: how many of you would want children? Reply with quote

...and if your answer would change if you didn't have SA?

so in your reply,
1-write your gender,
2-whether you would like to have children, if you prefer girls, etc or both, why/why not or in what case or whatever...
3-and then if your answer would change if you didn't have SA.

for example, I'm a gal, no I wouldn't even tho there are advantages w/ it but Not for the most part, and it wouldn't change if I didn't have SA b/c I don't like the world and its effects.- that's a real answer.



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MrRightNow
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 7:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm a dude and I either want 0 kids or 30. I mean I want a lot or none at all. And they all have to be boys. Theres nothing more heartbreaking for a father to find out that hes gonna have a daughter Crying or Very sad

Doctor: *sigh* "It's a girl, I'm sry sir"

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 7:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm a guy and I would want children.Maybe 2 or 3.I always like children they have so much energy and so much curiosity about the world around them.Always in a constant state of learning with bright eyes and I could make the world a better place.

My answer wouldn't change if I didn't have sp but it would make it possible to have children.The rate i'm going I know I will never have opportunity to have children now.So no kids for me.

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 8:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

1. I' ma 31 year old married male
2. I have a 13 month old daughter who i absolutley love, and maybe have one more once she goes to school.
3. I would have preffered to be better socially before she was born, as i am still struggling with it very much, now. I do worry the effect it will have on her, especially now that i am a house dad, while my partner works.

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PostPosted: Wed May 17, 2006 11:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

21 year old married women.

Never ever want kids! I don't know if it would be different if I had SP or not, I also have other issues but I guess I just don't want kids. I don't connect with kids.

If I ever did have one however, I think i'd want a girl simply because I am one and I know how they work. Oh plus I can buy cute care bears and strawberry shortcake baby clothes! HAHA.

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PostPosted: Thu May 18, 2006 2:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

male, I want 2 children- one boy and one girl or two girls- they are just cuter and it seems that on average girls aren't as rambunctious and hyper as boys. Not that there is anything wrong with that as long as you are playing with them.. but trying to keep them calm while going to the supermarket or what not... Rolling Eyes ---- my nephew is bad enough with the temper-tantrums. But, knowing my luck, I'll have a girl who is very hyper and rebellious..hehe.

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PostPosted: Thu May 18, 2006 1:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

1) Female

2) I don't think I'd want to have any children because I am sort of selfish and I like being by myself. I also get this horrible feeling when I think of death and I wish I had never been born and I wouldn't want my child to feel that.

3) My answer would not change.

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PostPosted: Thu May 18, 2006 3:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am 21.. nope..no marriage for me..I cant luk after my self..how am I gona luk after my kids and my wife.. i know for sure my wife is goin to ditch me oneday n' leave me in the middle Sad

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PostPosted: Tue May 23, 2006 6:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

1. Gender...let me check...it's male

2. I would like to have a boy and a girl. That would be when i have a very stable job, financial state, a house, and a.......wife Confused So the last one is a real problem.

Although I worry they would grow up to have SP like me, I guess the medicine would have found out a cure for this.

3. If I wouldn't have had SP, i would have gotten very far compared to where i am now, I guess I would be allready making money and have found a girl i woold choose to be my wife, after a very long selection, or why not, after fining it from the first time, like soul mates and stuff.


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PostPosted: Tue May 23, 2006 8:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

1 I'm a guy

2 Yes, I suppose it would be pleasant to become a successful person with a good job and a family and a lot of happy kids resembling their lucky dad in every detail

3 It's better if I forget about it Smile


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