Joined: Aug 17, 2007 Posts: 1149 Location: Wales, UK
Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2008 4:18 pm Post subject:
Chod77 wrote:
I am 17 and never had a boyfriend/date/anyone even like me.
How do you know the you have ''never had anyone like you''?
That's something you can't prove. You probably have a lot of admirers which you don't know about.
Joined: Jan 07, 2007 Posts: 570 Location: Lincolnshire
Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2008 5:20 pm Post subject:
Why are certain people on this board so eager to convince others that men have it harder?
At the end of the day, wether it's true or not (Which I don't beleive it is!) it doesn't change anything, does it!?
It won't make it any easier for those self-pitying men who beleive it's true, it will just lead to bitterness and resentment.
So I guess what i'm trying to say is...GET OVER IT AND STOP MAKING THREAD, AFTER THREAD, AFTER THREAD GOING ON ABOUT HOW MUCH HARDER THINGS ARE FOR YOU.
Sitting here moaning about it will not get you a girlfriend. I know this is a support forum, and of course venting and discussions of this sort are allowed, but come on how many times do you have to say the same thing! There has to come a point when you stop moaning and start doing something about it.
Whoa, I need to go lie down...
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~ "I find it kinda funny, I find it kinda sad, the dreams in which i'm dying are the best i've ever had" ~
I've never had a boyfriend, or even been asked out.
Only four people have voted, yet this topic has had 21 views. I guess almost everyone else is able to get a bf/gf.
I knew a girl in high school who had social anxiety. One day she was sitting all by herself, in gym class in the bleachers, like 5 rows behind her where like 5 guys, and I herd them talking. They were talking about one the guys who wanted to ask the girl out. It was really funny because they spent the whole period just talking about it, but he chickened out at the end. She was extremely shy.
Joined: Aug 17, 2007 Posts: 1149 Location: Wales, UK
Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 7:28 pm Post subject:
coriander1992 wrote:
Why are certain people on this board so eager to convince others that men have it harder?
At the end of the day, wether it's true or not (Which I don't beleive it is!) it doesn't change anything, does it!?
It won't make it any easier for those self-pitying men who beleive it's true, it will just lead to bitterness and resentment.
So I guess what i'm trying to say is...GET OVER IT AND STOP MAKING THREAD, AFTER THREAD, AFTER THREAD GOING ON ABOUT HOW MUCH HARDER THINGS ARE FOR YOU.
Sitting here moaning about it will not get you a girlfriend. I know this is a support forum, and of course venting and discussions of this sort are allowed, but come on how many times do you have to say the same thing! There has to come a point when you stop moaning and start doing something about it.
Whoa, I need to go lie down...
I need a girlfriend Why me???? I'm so sad and lonely
Ha ha! Ok i'm not going to pretend that i don't moan about the fact, but i think that before even thinking of getting into a relationship i need to sort out my low self-esteem issues, otherwise a relationship would be destructive. Only problem is will i ever get over my low self-esteem o'r is it something that will stay with me all my life?
Joined: Jun 15, 2008 Posts: 1 Location: Moscow, Russia
Posted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 4:09 pm Post subject:
I have never had a boyfriend. I'm 25 years old girl. I have close friends guys. But noone ever asked me to go out or something in this way. I'm a good friend, colleague. But I'm not interesting as a girl.
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