Oh. And. I already commented on this but I want to add more:
You are the authority.
You are in charge of your life.
You are making your decisions.
It's you who's feeling your feelings, it's you who's having your anxieties/inecurities/inabilities/negativness or whatever. And it's you who has the power to sort it out and use it/deal with it in a way that you choose.
Nobody can possibly make you feel this way or that way. Nobody can bully you if you yourself don't let them.
Don't sit down in despair. Live your life - it's a good one, believe it.
Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2008 12:59 pm Post subject: complainers are winners
I learned that whoever complains first wins. Doesn't matter who is right.
Because they make you try to defend yourself constantly The more you try to defend yourself, the more wrong things you say. They use everything you say and win.
Joined: Nov 17, 2007 Posts: 64 Location: New York City
Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 3:35 pm Post subject:
If I were in your position, honestly I would pay one of my cousin's friends to beat the **** out of all 5 of them (assuming each one is equally guilty). If it were 1 guy it would be easier. I had to deal with this bully ***hole for 2 years in high school, when I finally shoved food down his coat and punched him in the face one day at lunch. He pulled off a blame the victim stunt and I was given detention, and I just said to the lady "You're giving me detention to teach me a lesson but it won't work. If I had to, I'd punch him again and again." Don't care about you "getting into trouble." It's worth it for the satisfaction of revenge and the potential for the bullying to stop.
Listen dont let anyone say that it is ur fault because it is not. there are alot of people that bully other people around and often it is because there parents raised them wrong or they get power from it. honestly the best i can tell u to do is just dont give up hang in there and trust me if i lived by u i would take care of them personaly.. here is a site that u can get help at . www.bullypolice.org
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