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jayo
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 16, 2007 7:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi Friend

I've been through this as well and the only way to resolve it is to go where the bullies don't think you will go - to a higher authority.

Think about it - you're playing your hand when getting support from others.

Keep in touch with this site - let us know how you're getting on.

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bullyingstop
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 16, 2007 8:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey guys thanks for your replys makes me happy for once to realize there are some good people out there also people hu are atually caring for me thanks to you all and just so u no today at school was ok i gusse i did feel a bit adimitated becuase since its the last week of school ive had to catch up on coursework the whole day so i wasi n the computer room and i had vaction course in the computer room with all the people hu call me it i just managed to go way into the corner to get away from them i did get called forceskin today tho when i decided to finally going out after my long mate finally got me out to play basketball then my other so called mates decided to call me it so in the end i just decided to stop playing in the end they left but part from that its been ok
Also a qucik question jayo so u got called forceskin as well Shocked i fought i was the only one
My Regards

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kyle
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PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2007 9:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Fight whoever bullies you. Fight hard. Workout if you have to. Nobody will mess with you if it means they might get hurt. Trust me on this. I was bullied until I was 16. When I hit puberty I started getting big, and I began to workout with weights. When September rolled around, one guy who always made my life a living hell started at me.

I took one look at him, dropped my backpack, and knocked two of his teeth out. By the time it was over, the guy was laying on the ground, bloody, and I had cut my hand on his teeth. All I can say is that from that day on, nobody messed with me. I was ssuspended for a we, but even the teachers I had welcomed me back a hero since the previous two years I was bullied by this guy. What's best is the people he ran with did nothing. They even knew he was in the wrong.

Let me tell you about another small Jewish boy from Oklahoma. People used to pick on him too, and call him a cheap Jew. Of course, the guy eventually fought back, and got big. His name? Bill















..........Bill GOLDBERG, that is....



PS, if you want to learn more about how to deal with these creeps, talk to these guys:

http://www.jdl.org/

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bullyingstop
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PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 1:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

thanks man for ur support that was a great help i would go to the gym and that but i feel as if all my confidence in my self is gone they all ways make me seem like am diffrent like i ent a real person i feel like am small when am not and that site isent it just for jews ? becuase i am not a jew so would they still help me Confused also i have to face all of them in college this wednesday i feel as if i should just kill hu ever calls it me i mean if he calls it me what ever mood am in i mite just end it there and then

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Tryin
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PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 12:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

bullyingstop wrote:
thanks man for ur support that was a great help i would go to the gym and that but i feel as if all my confidence in my self is gone they all ways make me seem like am diffrent like i ent a real person i feel like am small when am not and that site isent it just for jews ? becuase i am not a jew so would they still help me Confused also i have to face all of them in college this wednesday i feel as if i should just kill hu ever calls it me i mean if he calls it me what ever mood am in i mite just end it there and then


Hey hey hey hey hey. Wait. No, this site isn't just for Jews, it's here for anyone suffering social anxiety and we all are ready and willing to offer you advice and sympathy so please feel free to use our Mini Messenger and contact us. Most of people here were or still are going through the same as you. Please, try to calm down now. Feeling forced to injure or even kill anybody is a very serious thing, I saw Kyle here advising you to fight the bullies physically and although I am sure he meant well, I don't think that's the right thing to do. Violence doesn't solve any problem, never.

Listen. You are 15. Growing up is never easy and I understand how hard it must be for you right now. BUT It doesn't have to stay like this. Actually, it CAN NOT stay like this. You have your rights and nobody is allowed to abuse you in any way. People who are bullying you are breaking the law, that's why you should tell authorities about it. Another thing. What about some theraphy? I'm positive there are such possibilities where you live, and your privacy would surely be protected, if you wanted to (although talking to your parents might help, too.) Your school should be able to contact a psychologist for you, so you can ask a teacher about it. From what I experienced, the benefits of psychotheraphy are almost always surprisingly quick and enourmous.

So, it was wednesday yesterday. How did it go? Drop by and write about it, if you want to, we might even come down to sorting it out a bit.

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bullyingstop
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 12:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

hey there thanks for you help guys and when i meant by wednesday i meant this wednesday coming now i have a late return due to my school having re building so we have to go back this monday the close its gets to monday the worse am feeling i went to drayton manor today my last surviving mates 2 of them i took with me which one called me circumtised boy then just laughed lucky i just blanked it out and tryed to change the conversation as i normaly do and tryin ill go on that site am afraid tho i cant tell anyone i no i mean it was a struggle for me to wrtie on here as it took me half a year of me just browsing through as i was scarid id get called stuff on here but i fought id just write on here what harm can it do but this wednesday is the day am dreading every wednesday i have to spend a whole day in vocation college course as i picked it as one of my subjects and i picked multi skills which i enjoy then i found out all the people hu have called it me are all going every single one of them calls it me as this all started with this one kid called zak in vaction course in year 10 as we were in classroom doing work part of the course i never have had to go to college with him as we went diffrent times now its the same time

m i am afraid to even go to school now i no every wednesday will be a time of upsetness madness am so stressed a whole day with the people hu call it me. i did how evr forget to tell u somthink a mate of mine hu was circumtised and the people found out he has been bullyied the same as me yet now he went pycho ..... on zak smashed a green house at school trying to punch him kept smahing him in the face zak ditent fight back well if he did he ditent do a good job of it i was so pleased thinking o mabye zak has learned mabye e wont call it me o but i was so wrong i mite not kill him o no but i will go get a baseball bat and i will beat him down like a asshole he is for what he has done to me now i have one more year as am going into year 11 when i finshed it will be officaly the happy day of my life and i wont care if i have gcses or not thats just a bonus i wont to get out of there the qucikest i can o and tryin and modern and kyle and all of you thanks for ur help so far am gonna need it

p.s tryin ill check that site out now

My Regards

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Tryin
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 3:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oh. Sorry, I guess I made a bit of mess out of this. The site you were reccomended by Kyle obviously IS for Jews - and although I am not familiar with that organization (Jewish Defence League), from what I found when I followed the link it seems to be quite a militant and destructive stuff, so please, be careful with that. I thought you meant this site, SPW (which obviously is not just for Jews at all, but you know that).

Sorry again. Laughing Embarassed Rolling Eyes

Thank you for sharing your thoughts in here, I understand it's not easy for you at all. Keep posting, it's a good thing!

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LarissaAnn
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 13, 2007 9:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I just wanted to send another voice of support from a previous victim of bullying. You are not alone, many people your age, younger, and older have been bullied and I think its safe to say that they stand beside you. Don't ever forget that bullies are some of the most pathetic people around and that you are SO MUCH better than them!
Sending you best wishes and support!

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bullyingstop
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 9:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

hey Guys i ent been on in a while just fought id tell you how things are going well as ive previsley said about wednesday are the worst well its true its a living nightmare like today i get plaster thrown at my head then i have to work with zak then he makes a song and dance saying am crap when hes never seen me probley plaster walls he never atually let me do the work allways was putting me down making fun of me then decided to announce to the other people from other scools that i was circumtised ....
at the end of the day i was beat up in the corner and one of them sliced my hand with a stanley knife Sad ive told my mom that am not happy at college not telling her the reason tho i just say i dont like it makes me even more made when they laugh when i try the work even so i do it correctley then when i do do it i get nobs hu decided to reck it all up by throwing plaster all voer my work i have a holiday tommrow woo so i gladley wish if you could give me some support on this am dropping the wednesday college and sticking with school even so ill have to pick double scinece or somin now i mean i really want this its for a qca or somin like that and i really want ti but everyone there is well lets just say am so close sucide foughts etc

My Regards

p.s thanks for the help so far

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kyle
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PostPosted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 4:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

bullyingstop wrote:
hey Guys i ent been on in a while just fought id tell you how things are going well as ive previsley said about wednesday are the worst well its true its a living nightmare like today i get plaster thrown at my head then i have to work with zak then he makes a song and dance saying am crap when hes never seen me probley plaster walls he never atually let me do the work allways was putting me down making fun of me then decided to announce to the other people from other scools that i was circumtised ....
at the end of the day i was beat up in the corner and one of them sliced my hand with a stanley knife Sad ive told my mom that am not happy at college not telling her the reason tho i just say i dont like it makes me even more made when they laugh when i try the work even so i do it correctley then when i do do it i get nobs hu decided to reck it all up by throwing plaster all voer my work i have a holiday tommrow woo so i gladley wish if you could give me some support on this am dropping the wednesday college and sticking with school even so ill have to pick double scinece or somin now i mean i really want this its for a qca or somin like that and i really want ti but everyone there is well lets just say am so close sucide foughts etc

My Regards

p.s thanks for the help so far


can you repeat that story in english?

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