Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 3:25 pm Post subject: Re: Shyest/Stupidest Person alive?
wow, that's a long time to think about an incident! that sounds really unfair, i'm sure you didn't sustain brain damage tho!
my sister severely bullied/controlled me for 14 years. I am only 18 so this is 4 years ago. I got myself out of it. She has never acknowledged she did anything to me let alone apologise!
But I have come to terms with this and pretty much let it go. If i can do this you can let go of your memory.
Way i see it in life it's all relative, there will always be people that had better situations than you, always people that had worse situations than you. So instead of obsessing about how you could have punished him, why not ask, what is best for me? To obsess about it or let it go. To feel good and look at the positives or become obsessed with negatives and bitter.
_________________ Aim for the moon and even if you miss, you will be among the stars...
Last edited by flake__ on Wed Dec 26, 2007 10:38 pm; edited 1 time in total
hey socialretahd..this guy sounds like a complete loser..and what he may have accomplished at college..and his money..don't make up for the fact that he's an insensitive jerk! I agree with flake, that the more you dwell and worry about it, the more you'll let it affect you negatively. As hard as it is, try to let it go..and focus on you..and the positive qualities you do have..cause we all have some..and don't let this jerks actions have any more effect on you
sorry man, youre just too funny. but its very unlikely you suffered any brain damage from one concussion. there are many people that have had several concussions without suffering any long-lasting effects. its usually when you have get to concussions in a very short time period that you would have a problem.
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Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 7:42 am Post subject:
zeroday wrote:
SocialRetahd wrote:
What do you think I should do now? I mean I finally had this guy in my sights and it was over for him. I finally could put him away, but I didn't.
I am having trouble living with this...
You should forgive him.
go over to his house, talk to him, give him a chance to apologize. put this behind you so you can live your life. good luck.
And don't get upset if he doesn't apologize.
But if you don't do this, I like what flake said up there. I also bet that he didn't take as much pleasure (if any) from what he did than you might think.
_________________ "people become obsessed with the few traits they dont like about themselves and often neglect all the the things that make them amazing people." -zeroday
He hasn't changed. Don't fool yourself. The only way he would have changed is if he wanted to change. If he actually has changed, he will let you know on his own.
Now, about the incident (this is going to sound cruel)...
Ironically, when you wrote about how you could've "told someone about it and gotten an assault on his record" as your retaliation is exactly the reason you would be a prime candidate for bullying. A "real mean" (as it were) would've confronted him right then and there, not moved to his seat and thought about reporting him. You've gotta stand up for yourself, man.
As for what to do now... just call the cops on him any time he has three or more friends over. Tell the police you can't take the racket anymore.
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but its very unlikely you suffered any brain damage from one concussion. there are many people that have had several concussions without suffering any long-lasting effects. its usually when you have get to concussions in a very short time period that you would have a problem.
