Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 5:40 pm Post subject: Re: Guys getting the wrong idea!
Winter wrote:
Sometimes I blush, like go bright red in front of guys when they look at me or I talk to them so I quickly look away.. then they must think I'm into them or summat n i'm like.. oh shit
can anyone relate?
i do that all the time, and i hate it..and sometimes the guys get all cocky and stuff..thinking i want them or something
I been told by someone who made me go purple to calm down whats the matter??this made it all worse i thought i end up havin a heart attack this can happen to us at work each day doin this crap takes a lot
This has been one of the biggest problems for me. I hate it when I blush in front of a guy and he starts getting all into it; it makes the whole thing much worse. I personally think that guys (generally) like it/take it as a compliment when girls blush in front of them, but this isnt something that makes it easier to bear for me, because I don't particularly like the fact that they are getting some ego bust out of my discomfort! However, I guess i can understand that the whole situation is kind of a mutual misunderstanding (with my perception being a bit warped/overly anxious, and them misreading my reaction).
I can completely relate to this.. it happens so often to me! I just started a job at a publishing company, and one of my coworkers came and introduced himself to me the other day... I turned so red! He seems like a cool guy that I'd like to get to know, but now I just find myself trying to avoid him in the hallways b/c I know I'll turn all red and he'll figure I have some sort of massive crush on him! I worked as an intern at a magazine in NYC for a few months, and I one of the top editors basically told me in so many words, that she wasn't going to hire me full-time b/c she thought I was intimidated by her! I just couldn't control my blushing! It's so debilitating sometimes, and I definitely can relate to how everyone feels...
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Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 6:52 pm Post subject:
I hate facial blushing and most of the times it's happened while I'm talking to teachers and some of the male teachers have got the wrong idea and got it into their head that I'm gay (which I'm not) and I fancy them! It's awful and I can't control it!
one of the top editors basically told me in so many words, that she wasn't going to hire me full-time b/c she thought I was intimidated by her! I just couldn't control my blushing!
Did this person specifically mention your blushing?
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It's awful and I can't control it!