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nesh · Newbie User Joined: Aug 29, 2007 Posts: 78

This is fucking shit! Why are we here? What's the fucking point? I give up.

nope1 · Posted: Sun Dec 23, 2007 8:58 pm Post subject:

Sorry to hear that you're having a hard time Sad

. What's the problem?

I agree that life can be a bitch and will give you only troubles to work on but we still gotta try. And by venting in the forums, it's a good sign that you want your life to be desperately better than it is right now.

So what's bothering you?

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nesh · Newbie User Joined: Aug 29, 2007 Posts: 78

The problem is that I'm a selfish antisocial prick. I have just about every disorder that exists: ADHD, OCD, AvPD, SP, Asperges, Schizoid... I haven't been diagnosed, but I know I am. I don't feel anything, I'm numb. I'm indifferent to everything, I just don't give a shit anymore. There's no point to life. We're born and then we die. So why wait?

nope1 · Posted: Sun Dec 23, 2007 10:00 pm Post subject:

Damn

... What are you doing right now? (just asking to see where you are) Are you going to college, work?

Because having this negative thoughts makes us (I'm talking to myself too) go into a deeper negative emotions. How do you know you have ADHD, Schizoid... you may be just thinking that way and that controls your emotions.

Try to take things step by step. What do you like? What do your favorite subject? Because trying to just get out of it all of sudden is very hard and realistically impossible. We can't go from floor 2 to 24 instantly (maybe if we had a teleport, we could Razz

) but you must go thru life step by step.

And enjoy your little succeses, even tiny ones are successes. Like, if you were afraid to go to shopping malls and then you succeeded, that's a huge success. And that will encourage you to take other steps.

And my philosophy is, how can you talk and be social to people if one is not even loving himself? So first, we need to love ourselves how we are and then try to be the best we can. Because if love ourselves, we will appear more confident and that will make a positive vibe.

I'm talking to myself too because I'm also having problems with this SP... but we we can do is do the best we can and help each other.

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IcarusUnderWater · Advanced User Joined: Dec 24, 2007 Posts: 305

recluse · Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2007 10:48 am Post subject:

Vulvectomy · Intermediate User Joined: Dec 12, 2007 Posts: 102

If we're all just going to die anyway, might as well make it a fun trip. Have fun with your existence. It's all you got for the time being!

nesh · Newbie User Joined: Aug 29, 2007 Posts: 78

Aaaaarrrrrgggghh! Basically it's how I'm feeling right now. I don't expect anyone to give a shit about how I feel. At the end of the day we're all just little ants on this big round ball in the middle of no-where with no significance whatsoever, so who gives?

Ahmed · Newbie User Joined: May 21, 2005 Posts: 68 Location: Egypt

sometimes i feel that this forum makes us even more losers than we already are Smile

SilentType · Expert User Joined: Jul 04, 2007 Posts: 614

I just look at this place as a community of people who share these anxious, life depriving thoughts with. It's a place where people actually see eye to eye with you on the subject, not just another person who thinks they know whats wrong with you and knows what medicine usually works for the symptoms... This is a great place, I don't agree with anyone who puts it down, because if you weren't here, you'd be "wasting" your time somewhere else anyways...

Peace