Joined: Mar 25, 2008 Posts: 21 Location: Ohio, USA
Posted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 11:45 pm Post subject:
These have been an interesting 7 pages of reading, but I am going to reply to the topic of this thread...
Although I am a girl, I used to be scared to death of intimacy, even though I craved it. I figured all guys wanted Victoria's Secret models for girlfriends, so that left me out. I thought it was a good thing though, as I would probably suck in bed and bore the crap out of the guy. And I was afraid of the pain!!
However, when I met a really loud crazy guy (as I needed since I am the opposite) he helped me sooo much. And when you start kissing, you really don't care about being naked or feeling awkward. And it didn't hurt like I thought it would!! (I did already break my hymen through the repeated use of tampons.) He helped me to feel better about myself and to see that he really enjoyed being with me. Once you find the right girl, it will be the same for you, I guarantee it.
I was worried about premature ejaculation and when I finally had my first time sure enough it happened...I felt very embarrased, but she seemed to understand how it is for a guys first time...anyway I was worried that that would happen forever, but after a few times it went away. I think the initial "good feeling" sort of overwhelms you if you aren't used to it...so if that happens don't worry right way unless it keeps doing if for a long time....id say more then the first 10 times of sex...most likely less
Joined: Feb 19, 2008 Posts: 46 Location: The Netherlands
Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 5:23 pm Post subject:
Two days ago I lost my virginity at the age of 21, and my biggest fear was that I would let myself down performance wise (premature ejaculation). In retrospect I've come to realise that all the fear I felt before I ever had sex, was completely self enforced.
All the bad things that could actually happen (I've obsessed about those doom scenarios many times), did not happen at all. No premature ejaculation, she even told me she was exhausted at the end It was absolutely wonderfull and I'm so happy I pushed through the fear.
I'm afraid of everything involving human interaction...
eR1k wrote:
Two days ago I lost my virginity at the age of 21, and my biggest fear was that I would let myself down performance wise (premature ejaculation). In retrospect I've come to realise that all the fear I felt before I ever had sex, was completely self enforced.
All the bad things that could actually happen (I've obsessed about those doom scenarios many times), did not happen at all. No premature ejaculation, she even told me she was exhausted at the end It was absolutely wonderfull and I'm so happy I pushed through the fear.
Please tell me my friend; is sex as great as people say it is? Don't disappoint me.. And congratulations. You shouldn't be here, this place is for losers like myself
Last edited by Argamemnon on Thu Mar 27, 2008 6:17 pm; edited 1 time in total
Once you find the right girl, it will be the same for you, I guarantee it.
There is no such thing. Stop giving people false hope.
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_________________ Stop making kids.
Compulsory sterilization is good.
More security. Less freedom.
The word "cowardly" is often used as another word for effectivly.
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I thought it was a good thing though, as I would probably suck in bed and bore the crap out of the guy. And I was afraid of the pain!!
(I did already break my hymen through the repeated use of tampons.) He helped me to feel better about myself and to see that he really enjoyed being with me. Once you find the right girl, it will be the same for you, I guarantee it. 
It was absolutely wonderfull and I'm so happy I pushed through the fear.
