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Marie_knowsbest · Intermediate User Joined: Apr 27, 2008 Posts: 139

nah werent my best work. i was tired and couldnt be bothered lol. well i guess its good to say that none of you understand anything beyond yourselfs, we have shy people who hate out going people and vica versa i guess we all hate everyone lol

has anyone thought she might just be a SA suffer who doesnt feel sorry for her self? (jura i mean) see again you people cant say she doesnt understand you when just because you dont agree with her opinions, she cant possibly be a suffer? thats stupid, because u obv cant understand her. i knew a indian who hated indians! lol dont mean hes not a indian tho....u see my point yeh.

everything jura said was true, your all just pissed off that she said it and probs jealous that she has problems and confidence. as odd as it is to have a outgoing SA sufferer, it dont mean it dont exist.

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Marie_knowsbest · Intermediate User Joined: Apr 27, 2008 Posts: 139

lol to what was said at me just lol. you lot crack me up. yes i am the freak. oky doky.

jura. just let em have this one, its all they have in the world, im gonna chat to my mate instead about real life. stuff that means something, not this self sorrow bullshit u feed eachother. u wont even be told by people who are exactly what u wanna be!

were the outgoing people, with the mates, with the lifes etc and you think were wrong???? HELLLO???? so your doing everything right? then why the fuck have you got problems?

fuck off, twats.

Fairy001 · Intermediate User Joined: Apr 06, 2008 Posts: 208

I don't wish to go in to the ins and outs of this thread, but, I am a little shocked that other members on this forum can diagnose SA over the internet.

Someone joins this site, expresses what transpires to be controversial opinions, and others can diagnose.

Peace xxx

Darkened · Newbie User Joined: Jun 03, 2008 Posts: 29

asouthwest · Newbie User Joined: Jun 11, 2008 Posts: 5

i feel the same lol Very Happy

Jura · Newbie User Joined: Feb 29, 2008 Posts: 52

First, to those of you saying I don't have social phobia, obviously I can't prove over the Internet, but I actually do. What I meant by shy extrovert, was in the psychological sense of the terms "shy" and extrovert". Someone who is shy (or has social phobia) generally avoids social contact out of fear. Someone who isn't shy doesn't do this. Someone who is an extrovert enjoys social interactions because of the mental stimulation it brings them. Someone who is introverted generally prefers to do things alone. So while the overwhelming majority of SA sufferers are introverted but some are not: some enjoy contact with those they are comfortable with or would enjoy contact with people if they had anyone they were comfortable around. Therefore, you can be a shy extrovert.

Secondly, I wish I had a "real life without problems." Maybe there are some sufferers who are worse off, but a lot of you have milder forms of this than me judging by what you people say here. So don't criticize me for that. I have it tough too.

Thirdly, just curious, where did I ever make a spelling mistake? I ask because I can't find them, and if I constantly misspell words, then you should probably tell me so I don't embarrass myself.

OK, now that we're done with the ad hominem, I'd like to address the rest of the arguments. Oh, wait, there aren't any.

So I'll say something else. I am sorry for what I said, as I just read my first post and realized I was really harsh and directed a lot of things at you people directly. My own post shocked me (I'm pretty good ay Cool

). I just got momentarily pissed off at you, because I always hear that sort of shit and it's so typical it just all built up so I took it out on you. Like the bullcrap "nice guys" say about women. And I'm sorry and I apologize and I hope you will accept my apology.

What I should have said is pretty much the same thing without the swears and personal put-downs and everything else that might have hurt someone's self-esteem. And, again, I didn't mean to convey that I think that introverts (in the psychological sense) are inferior. It's just like when someone says racist things in response to something on the news that pisses them off that they don't really mean.

In conclusion, to sum it all up, all I wanted to say was that extroverts are people too, so don't hate them, and while I understand your need to vent your frustrations, those first few posts didn't really sound like someone venting their frustrations. Laughing

And I'll be nice from now on. I understand that it's not your fault you don't have self-esteem and need people to help you with motivational talk.

So once again, I'm sorry and I hope you can forgive me.

P.S. I still mean all those things, but without thinking anyone's inferior or whatever. Like that you should harden the fuck up and all that. At least some of you overly over-dramatize your "suffering".

P.S.S. Having a positive attitude and snapping out of the wussy self-pitying mode has helped me more than anything, it used to be A LOT worse than it is now. So however unfair you may think life may bem just harden the fuck up and it will help you more than anything, I know from personal experience.