Joined: Jan 07, 2007 Posts: 583 Location: Lincolnshire
Posted: Wed May 14, 2008 4:59 pm Post subject:
If you know that your dogs are fine, and that you're caring for them properly, then stuff that silly cow. What the hell does she know!
Just try to ignore her, as hard as it is, and maybe she'll get bored.
I strongly advise that you don't stab her though, surely she isn't worth the effort or the prison sentence...and just think, she might survive it and then you'd have gone through it for nothing
No, seriously though, just try and ignore her.
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Posted: Wed May 14, 2008 5:10 pm Post subject: ...
I find the situation funny. I mean i don't find it funny literally, i find funny the way you wrote it. Anyways, why would your neighbor go around saying that you starved your dogs?...Thats a little scary. SHe's stalking you...CREEPY. Seriously, no offense but is not that serious to go and stab her. You can talk to her if you want or you can ignore it. WHy would you want to spend your life in jail because she said you starved "your dogs"... COME ON NOW.
I know you feel depressed and stuff...but JAIL IS NOT FUN. Take care.
I'm having these same problems myself, in addition of course to my mental problems, so for what it's worth you have my genuine sympathy. I don't have any bright ideas on how to deal with this, except to say don't throw your life away over an evolutionary throwback like that.
What is the point of this discussion, if we donīt know what happened with the dogs. Why did you start this thread, you want us to say that your neighbor is a bitch but we donīt know any FACTS, so nobody is able to judge.
If you starved the animals or I donīt know what you did with them, then she is right isnīt she.
You shouldn't have stabbed your dogs with forks while your neighbors were around.
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Sacrament and Lea, have either of you ever rented or owned your own properties? If not I hope when you grow up and you do, that you do not have problem neighbours.
Lea, you asked what the point of these posts were, it's called venting, you must have done it, or at least understand it or you wouldn't be a member here. You also seem to think that as you don't know whether Lonely has been correctly accussed of animal abuse, you cannot offer any support. This is ridiculous, by that token, you have no evidence that anyone is telling the truth about whatever they are venting. Also, if you don't want to take part in this thread, don't.
I am sorry if this sounds aggressive, it is not meant to be so, I am just a little puzzeled as to your reactions. I see alot of threads on this forum I can't relate to, so I don't take part in them.
I was just kidding around. If I did live in an apartment or somewhere where I'd have an old hag bothering me, I'd deal with it just fine. The art of revenge and/or payback is lovely.
If you haven't done anything wrong and haven't abused your pets, then don't worry about it too much or do something about it. There are a hundred different ways you can shut your neighbors up.
_________________ Alas! Our dried voices, when we whisper together, are quiet and meaningless as wind in dry grass or rats' feet over broken glass in our dry cellar.
I have been living in rented places or in families with strange people most of my life, plus traveling and dealing with loud TV/music in the hotels etc. I know what bullying by neighbors or people I live with means. But if I should stab all of them there would not be many people left. I could include my parents as well.
I donīt understand what you wanted to say Fairy, I think what I wrote before is clear. Just think about it and try to understand and youīll find there is nothing wrong with that. We should deal with facts, not with nothing. We can vent, but there should be some logic in it as well.
I do not think Lea that you are the one to decide whether someone else's venting is logic, just because you don't understand something, does not mean it is not understandable. You write, "we should deal with facts, not nothing". Who are you to decide whether someone else's problems are nothing? I repeat, if you do not like the thread, do not take part. I suggest YOU re-read the thread, in the hope of better understanding.
Lonely is venting regarding the frustration of a neighbour spreading rumours. You say it is illogical as we cannot validate what is being said. Well, shall I read all your posts and decide 1) whether I deem them to be logical, 2) whether I even believe you. That would be really nasty.
If you have suffered with uncomfortable living conditions yourself, perhaps you can draw on that and show some empathy.
At NO point in this discussion has anyone agreed with a physical assualt, Lonely was expressing sheer frustration, I would think someone of your age could recognise that.
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