man dont ask people why their family killed themselves! im very sorry to here that mate xxx
and that is why suicide is wrong on too many levels.
havin a porn and internet addiction isnt really that bad to kill youself is it? if thats hard to deal with to you then mate..you have not exerienced alot, which is why you need to get out n about rather than contemplate suicide likes it the same as choosing white or brown bread.
to the original poster....please post again, just to let know your alive!!!!!!!
I'm 25 nearly 25 now. And I went through EXACTLY the same feelings as you when I was 17 and I didn't keven know what SA was back then (no internet back then, only dial up) lol, but I actually tried to go through with it, but was saved by my sister of all people. The person who I thought was my worst enemy.!!!!!!!
Now I'm not saying my life is a bed of roses now, but I'm glad I'm here now. I ended up in a 6 year relationship (ended now, but glad it happened). And I'm low right now, but I know life will get better.........that's how life goes..........I will feel better if you just say a message to say your'e ok, send me a pm, and we can chat....peace.
hope I made sense, it's 4 am uk time right now! lol
I never spilt my feelings like this over a computer b4! LOL
Don't you just hate it when people bombard you with hope replies..jeezes f#cking christ, do i simply detest people with hope.
Hope= LIE. That's what it is, it's a freaking lie and i can't lie anymore..i simply can't,kudos to those that can because only like 10% of you are gonna make it (like be "happy",if that exists), the others will wound up in their thirties or forties working like a slave thinking they will have an ordinary life..but they won't..haha it's GENIUS!
It has come to this that a 17 year old wants to go back to the lying matrix but he simply can't...he has seen what is real for him and suicide makes sense...why not? Life ends anyways and the meaningless suffering outweighs the potential happiness
Or...
Take a chance, Suffer some more..see how things play out and you might be one of the 10%, if not there will always be guns.
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2008 3:56 am Post subject: Re: Suicide not the answer? Why not?
endoflife wrote:
Committing suicide cons:
-May cause temporary pain to the small amount of family members that care about me.
Dude, if that "con" isn't stopping you then I know that you have no comprehension whatsoever of how bad pain can be. But I guess your family would soon know.
If you hate yourself so much how can you possibly trust your own advice.
Looking at your post I'd say you tried to look at things scientifically (beyond yourself). But dude, that post is as biased as.
_________________ You hate yourself, don't you? That's why you hurt others. Deep down you know you suffer more when you cause someone else pain... than if you just let yourself get hurt.
I'm slightly worried this guy hasn't posted since.
I was worried the moment I read his last line.
Volaju wrote:
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Hope= LIE.
Maybe to you, but you're still alive, so there must be something in life.
I know I'm very hopeful, even stupidly so. But I keep trying to spread it. Because... Okay, so the world sucks. Hardly anyone lives somewhere that isn't incredibly poor or horribly materialistic or both, and that's really sad. I could go on listing bad things for a long time. But there are good things in the world, and if you hate it, why don't you try to become one of those good things? Help someone. Do something. Whatever. Anything can work. Yes, I do believe in the butterfly effect even for things like this. Also, compare how many people posted with hope with how many people posted with an argument against it. That must say something.
endoflife, if you're still there I hope (am I supposed to use another word here, Volaju?) you notice how many people want you to keep trying, and really do care.
shinji_ikari wrote:
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If you hate yourself so much how can you possibly trust your own advice.
Good question. Not that, as is pointed out, we're unbiased, but you should consider that.
Why suicide is not the answer and why not? Well, because to tell you the truth we don't know if God is even real or any God from any other religion, thus if you exterminate yourself prematurely, theres 99% chance that you'll cease to exist completely. You'll become 0, and become just temporary memories that will eventually fade away with time. So just try to live the life that you have right now , it may seem hard but your just 17.
Volaju if this guys has SAD, he will complete my theory that people with are SAD are assholes lol
I'll bet they'll find a cure in another 20 to 50 years, is the century of the brain you guys did'nt know.
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Accepting that life is a hell can do wonders, because that is what life is. I accept it, and live on..i'm kinda used to the suffering and not hoping for anything is kinda relieving. Yeah It's a defeatist attitude but there's less suffering then trying to fight yourself,beat yourself up for something that might never happen.
Helping others? No..i rather spend it helping myself. Selfish, but hey..my life already pretty much sucks so if i can read a book,watch tv..then that's what i'm gonna do instead of helping starved guys on the street.
About the kid, trust me..he will not catch the bus, he only wanted to know that he wasn't alone in this kind of thinking,but sadly he's being treated like an outcast..even among outcasts.
So Volaju your saying we should all be like, hey suicide is awesome, we all should go and do it now. are you for real, of course it's not right, he's 17 fcs, you say Hope=Lie, are you a psychic, do you have some time travelling machine in your basement, how are we to know what is around the corner, hope is the only thing keeping me grounded to the fact that everything could be okay in the future, how are we to know that one day this guy isn't going to get over his problems, fall in love, settle down and have kids. life is life, be grateful that your here, we all have our problems, but life is precious, even though it might not seem it at times. i hope this kid is okay!
_________________ "Fear is that little darkroom where negatives are developed."
Joined: May 06, 2008 Posts: 139 Location: Brisbane, Australia
Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2008 12:00 pm Post subject:
Suicide is a common problem in my family given my uncle and cousin are both dead while another cousin tried to. I myself have thought about it. I even thought about it today - overdosing on Xanax and Valium to put myself to sleep. I hate where I live and my position in life generally but there is something there to look forward to, whatever that may be. If someone is feeling suicidal let someone know that is my advice. I hope the poster did. I told my parents and got put in hospital and given Largactil with valium straight away.
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