Its a tough one I see some people with children and can't help thinking I could do a way better job then them as a parent. On the other I think how much effort it would be just to meet someone then all the costs involved and then I think I'm probably to self absorbed to give them the full attention they would need.
Well, I haven't been on this forum for a while, back then I was living with my parents in a small town very lonely and depressed. Since then I met someone on the internet and moved to brisbane to live with them, for the first 6 months we were living with his parents aswell, but now we are renting together, and I have been so scared of having sex with him, and we have twice which shocks me that I managed too.
Well to the point, yes I really want to have kids sooooo much I really want to be a mum, but how can I if I find the idea of sex terrifying, I feel like leaving my boyfriend so that he can just find someone normal. =(
Joined: Jul 09, 2008 Posts: 139 Location: United States
Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 10:52 pm Post subject:
ktea wrote:
I don't want to have kids, EVER. #1 reason being that the thought of being intimate with someone terrifies me.
Also I don't want to go through the physical pain, and I'd prefer not to have stretchmarks, thanks. Kids are just headaches and money-wasters wrapped up in cute little packages.
Some people should never procreate... I am one.
Also my genes aren't exactly what one would call "desirable."
Ditto. Im not neccesarily opposed to kids but if i was ever to have kids i wouldn't HAVE kids-i would adopt. But i dont think that is going to happen. I would make such a horrible parent!..im not bad around kids but i have no idea what the hell im doing! WAY too big of a responsibility. Just as others have said, its not fair to the child.
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Joined: Jul 10, 2008 Posts: 70 Location: Seoul Korea
Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 11:54 am Post subject:
no...because first of all, I wouldnt want them to have social anxiety too..I couldnt bare to watch my child go through the same thing that I'm going through....and i dont know, i dont think i can EVER handle dirty diapers..
but then asides from all that, i still think about it..maybe, just maybe..when God sends me that one special guy that His created just for me..get married , have kids and live HAPPILY ever after..
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